Should I stop dating for good?

[Anonymous]

So tired of this dating world. Seriously tired of men that are one time chasing me then when I am interested they disappear. Last time dated a guy for a whole year… or even a friend tried to have me for 4 years once we had sex for several times he sort of said he wanted just to be a friend with benefits. I am done. Seriously men do better

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you angry at men or angry at yourself because of the choices you make in men?

[Asker]

No just angry with how dating is these days!

[OlderAndWiser]

Many people are having good luck dating. Do you think you have any responsibility or contribution to your lack of success?

[Asker]

I don’t know I am not clingy. I may not understand when people are interested when they are interested in me. I need to know. But I don’t chase anyone. I think I am just tired!

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever tried double dating so you can watch how a friend interacts with her partner on a date? It mght be educational!

[Asker]

Yes I have. I don’t think it has nothing to do with my dating skills.

[Anonymous]

All of this is easily avoided simply by never having sex until you've been in a committed relationship for 6 months to a year.

[Asker]

I Waited 4 years with one! Doesn’t mean shit! Did you read what I wrote

[Aerolyn]

That's your call to make, not ours.

[Anonymous]

Yes. 😆😆😆