The guy I like has avoidant attachment issues, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Should i let him go and leave it to him or wait?

[sawno]

I'd say make him feel safe. If he's avoiding it its probably either because he's not quite sure what to do or is scared from a past experience. Show him you appreciate him how he is, and just be very open to him. Don't apply pressure but do guide him gently if you see he's hesitant.

[msc545]

He will never feel safe. Take it from a guy who is actually avoidant himself.

[Summeroflove]

Look if someone rejects you. You have to let them go…. You can feel bad for them yeah he may not be a bad person. But you just can’t force someone.

[Zionne]

leave, you don't have to deal with the stress

[Staximus]

Are you going to wait around forever until some dumb ass makes up his mind and stops pushing you away? Move on with your life, there's a million guys out there

[Asker]

how?

[FunkyMonkee]

First off, explain what avoidant attachments issues ARE!!

[Asker]

do u not know what that is?

[FunkyMonkee]

No, i don't. That's mostly why I asked.

[Asker]

google’s free, im not ur teacher

[FunkyMonkee]

Gee, thanks! That's REALLY sweet, kind and friendly of you!

[Asker]

you’re 60 years old dude.

[FunkyMonkee]

So? You're under 18!! I don't speak kiddie winkie.

[Asker]

You should know this…

[FunkyMonkee]

And you should know bi-labial fricative. But, do you?

[FunkyMonkee]

Why should I know of it if I've never heard of it before?

[Asker]

I could simply google that up, so can you. Would’ve saved this argument or wtv.

[FunkyMonkee]

Or, you COULD'VE just answered!! Or is that too hard for you to do?

[Asker]

my god are u incapable of doing anything yourself?

[FunkyMonkee]

Apparently YOU are!!
I asked another girl last night what something was that she mentioned. She just now told me what it was and, I thanked her. End of conversation!!

[Asker]

My gosh ur so incompetent, goodbye.

[FunkyMonkee]

Go tell your mother she wants you!

[Asker]

my gosh… 60 years old by the way.. arguing with a teenager🤦‍♀️

[Fruitpunch1789]

RUN Forest RUN

[Anonymous]

Communicate

[Asker]

and if i dont talk to him?

[Opinion Owner]

U are avoidant yourself. Why blame him

[Asker]

we’re just not that close to be talking about stuff like that