Girls, would you date a man that said he won't date a woman that weighs over 126 lbs?

[Anonymous]

Do you think that is reasonable? For reference (medically speaking) that's normal weight for 5' on the high end and 5'8" on the low end)

Honest answers are appreciated.

Do not take this question as my personal assessment. I'm just gathering data. And do not take offense if you weigh over 126lbs. Again, just gathering data.

I will posts an update with my findings

[4ngelic]

I'm way above 126 lbs (my bmi is still healthy though, i'm 5'8, maybe 1/2 as well not sure), so that wouldn't be possible. I'd have to be pretty thin for that to work as that's a bmi of 18/low 19 for me. If I was theoretically under that weight I wouldn't because I know if I bumped up to a bmi of 20 he wouldn't like it.

I don't take offense to it though, on an average height or petite woman it's not super skinny or anything, it's quite normal. besides we're all entitled to our tastes

[Asker]

You shouldn't take offense to it. Many do though.

[Beckybooboo]

No, I wouldn't. I also think I know where you're going with this question. Is it about a woman's preference for height on a man? If it is, preferences change, according to the actual person you get to know.

[Asker]

Care to add why you wouldn't?

[Beckybooboo]

If you're under 6' I'm not going to waste my time. Sorry..

[Asker]

But you said preferences change?

[DishLady]

No… what’s he gonna do, have her weigh in every week? What happens if she gets pregnant? Pfft.

[Asker]

Well, one would HOPE that pregnancy changes that. Because I would think to expect a woman to main tain that would be unhealthy for bothe HER and THE BABY.

[Nikki1989]

If he is insecure over that, then who knows what else is insecure or immature about? Basically, it is a humongous red flag.

[Asker]

So I take that as being "you would not".

[PeachyPie93]

LOL he wouldn't date me cuz i don't weigh 126 so why would I want to date someone who doesn't want to date me..

[Asker]

That's like asking why would a guy want to date a woman that thinks he's unattractive. You probably wouldn't! The question was given with the assumption that you already had interest in the guy. AND THEN you learned THIS bit of info about him. The point was to ask yourself if that was a reasonable standard. And would you be willing to date him with that knowledge. Unless you weighed significantly more than 126lbs. How could he even know? We could go a lot of different directions with this. But the only question I was asking was, Would YOU date him possessing this knowlwdge?

[PeachyPie93]

And my answer is no, even if I liked him I wouldn't want to date him because we are incompatible. His standards are fine for himself and some other girl but I don't fit his standards and won't change for him. Even if I weighed 126 or less.. its like saying if you go over that I'll dump you, I don't think that is true love..

[Asker]

Agreed, fair enough. But nit everything BEGINS as true love either. 👍

[queenofcardio]

No. Would not.

[Asker]

Care to add why? Not necessary if you don't want to answer that part. But it adds to the data pool.

[LazerBean]

No I would not

[Asker]

Care to add why? Not necessary if you don't want to answer that part. But it does add to the data pool.

[LazerBean]

Even when I was a very skinny teenager, I was 112lbs. Right now I'm already 126 and like how I look, but I like to workout and would love to get to a point where I'm even 10-20lbs heavier.

[Abbycado]

Nope.

[Asker]

Care to add why? Not necessary if you don't want to answer that part. But it adds to the data pool.

[Abbycado]

Nope. If you don’t care to show your username, I don’t care to expand.

[Asker]

That's fine. This data is enough.👍

[jazzy34]

I wouldn’t.

[Asker]

Care to add why? Not necessary if you don't want to add that part. But it adds to the data pool.

[jazzy34]

A man who wants a woman to stay a certain weight is superficial. He wants the “perfect” woman when no such thing exists.