My man was dm’ing someone with no profile picture on IG. I looked up the username elsewhere and it turns out to be a girl. Should I add her and ask?

[Anonymous]

Should I add her and ask if she’s the one my boyfriend is messaging or what do I do?

[ohsheeT]

If you want to know the truth. Be very patient. Don't just jump in to it and think she's going to tell you anything. The only way is to take your time. I mean it might take 2 months

If he is cheating he\nWill slip up and you will catch him. But you have to be patient

Listen to his wordsSometimes when he's lying to you, he'll tell you the truth in the same breath, but don't push the issue with him either. Because all it takes is one wrong word from you and you won't find out anything. There's ways to go about it

[Summeroflove]

That’s sketchy most people unless they’re extremely desperate aren’t messaging someone faceless. Obviously he doesn’t want you to know who she is.

[Asker]

I’ll get to the bottom of it. I don’t want to tell him anything until I know for sure.

[Summeroflove]

Sometimes it’s best to be direct. If he won’t tell the truth maube the relationship is better ended.

[Asker]

I know something is off because he’s on his phone more often now. He’ll even go to his car and be nonstop typing. I try my best to not be insecure and just let him do his thing but last night I grabbed his phone and noticed he had instagram messages with a profile with no profile picture. Whoever it is has followers but the account is private. So, I looked up the username elsewhere and this person pooped up.

[Summeroflove]

Obviously he’s hiding something

[HollyK21]

Why is it your first instinct to address the woman rather than the person who actually had loyalty and care for you? You strike me as type to fight a woman over a guy when he’s the one who cheated. I partially think this is trolling but still, @Abbycado 🙄

[Asker]

Excuse me? At what point did I bash her? I’ just want to know if it’s her or not. Obviously I’m going to take it up with my boyfriend but first I need to make sure if it’s her.

[HollyK21]

Excuse YOU, where did I say you bashed anyone? Where did I use that terminology? No where. You’re a ridiculous woman, you’re trying to confront the person that your man is cheating on you with rather than going straight to him, and ridding yourself of him.

[HollyK21]

It shouldn’t matter who it was, he was dm’ing other women behind your back and that’s the sole issue.

[Asker]

I agree with you

[rosemilk]

do it and then come back with an update. also, this doesn't mean she will tell you the truth

[Asker]

Done, I’ll keep you updated.

[HighValue]

If you want a successful long term relationship, BOTH people need to agree to not have smartphones, BUT most people value their phone more than anything else in life so they actually suffer because of their own life choices. They are too stupid to get rid of the smartphones.

[RHK36]

Just leave him... doing all that and you are being equally toxic. You'd rather confront some random girl than your own boyfriend. Leave and find someone more loyal. If you can't then you might be the problem

[RavVid]

All's fair. You could be a little more subtle and let her take a hint initially before pressing the nuclear button.

[Nikki1989]

Any man on IG will be talking to women 100%.

[sawno]

I wouldn't, but then I remembered I don't have IG and that is probably related xD

[UrLoveMocha]

It can be innocent, but I will say he has opened the door… It’s all about trust from this point.. but know that there’s a chance you’ll find something that you don’t like.. the question is, what will you do with this information?

[888theGreat]

Sounds like you don't trust him. I doubt this relationship goes very far

[jshm2]

No. Don't be daft. You don't know if it's the same person.

[Alex-Snow]

I would ask ur boyfriend. Has it messed with ur sex life?

[Smegskull]

You could try asking your man first... Could be an event planner for your next birthday for all you know.

[DishLady]

What for?

[Iron_Man]

Yes …

[Anonymous]

Yes you should.