Guys, If a woman has never had a relationship at age 35, when is the right time to tell you while dating and is it a red flag?

[Anonymous]

I know, for some, this would seem a little strange (truthfully, I just haven't wanted to date much until this point). I'm guessing some guys would want to know relatively early in the dating stage. When should I mention it?

And is it a red flag for you?

[Lovearabgirls]

Well so I have dated many girls and mostly arab and Latin girls. 2 girls I dated in the past both never had sex or a relationship until one was 37 and the other 41. They told me their situation and I was fine with it. I had sex with her and even though it was the first time she embraced. Maybe because I was her type and had feelings and she was curious to try since she started later in life. After a while we began having sex for hours per day and she would cum. There is nothing wrong if you start later or tell the man. As long as the woman is willing to explore and start then I as a man don’t mind what age she started.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s not a red flag if she doesn’t make it one


If she explains to me that she chose her career or maybe wanted something she couldn’t find, or lived away from any decent candidates or any other good reason.
I’m cool with it


But if she hides it and tells it with shame later I might wonder why

[Berethor]

Tell him as soon as possible, virginity is a good thing. You can follow me if you want to chat.

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[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

That's definitely weird to be that age and have never experienced a relationship before.

Its best to tell the man early and tell him the truth as to why you haven't at least dated til that point.

If he seriously likes you then it won't matter.

[DonaldDarko]

I don't know if it's a red flag but what made you not want to date all those years? I grew up in dystopian southern California, women there were disgusting. That contributed to me no dating a lot, most of it maybe.

[Anonymous]

It could be. It doesn't mean it IS, though. I can relate to "just not having wanted to date" to a point though. Or more accurately just didn't feel that pull with anyone.

When to mention it. I wouldn't mention it at all unless he does. It's not a problem for you is it? And if it is then maybe you should address that first.

[meepmeeperton]

Guys generally don't perceive that as a negative thing. You can bring it up casually at any point and see how he reacts.

[dudeinohio]

If you are seeing a guy for a possible relationship, I would say you could mention it anytime it comes up in conversation. It wouldn't be a red flag for me.

[Anonymous]

I haven't even been on a date yet, and I'm 27. I don't think it is, but others probably would.

[MasterKS]

if she spend 35 years without dating, all she need is grow up and live the life rather than wasting it.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care. I'd prefer that to a woman who's been with other guys before me.

[garvitrv]

U have to be in relationship at this age