Girls is it important how much a guy makes and how financially stable he is?

[RyanEC]

I make about 40k a year and own my house so I think I’m doing okay financially but I wonder if that’s enough.

[sage2021]

It sounds like you are a stable man and that's a very good quality in a man.

However, it's fine for you, but if you ever meet that special person and fall in love with each other and end up married, then that would be a game changer. She would probably have to work as well, to be able to keep up with the cost of inflation and the everyday expenses it takes to run a house.

When I owned my house, there was always something that needed to be done to it. Right after we moved in and turned on the air conditioner, it broke!

Unexpected expenses could put you in the hole financially and not having enough money is something that ruins some relationship.

Then if you decide to have children, we'll, that's another story to be saved for another time.

So, if you keep your life just as it is now, yes, it's enough but you have to still be careful with your spending 💰 and try to sock some money away for emergencies or just to have some money to keep.

I hope that I answered your question and just thought 🤔 I would be more thorough by giving you some different senerios to ponder.🙂

[Simslover92]

Is 40k ideal? No not really but you own a house which means you're better off than a lot of men. For me, personally it wouldn't bother me if a guy made 40k especially if they had a house of their own but to some girls, it may not be enough.

It really shouldn't matter but the reality is it does.

[msc545]

The more you make, the more women you can attract. Very few women are going to be satisfied with 40,000 a year.

[qwerty2469]

If you have a mortgage and real estate taxes you don't own your house. You are in debt and at rick of loss

[DishLady]

Yes. Not for gold-digging women's purposes, but because some GUYS are gold-diggers nowadays and a girl doesn't need a deadbeat on her hands. It's the quickest way to end up a single mom with a mountain of debt. Each person coming into a relationship should be self-sufficient.

[alice55]

If you earned that much you'll be considered rich in France. I think stability is more defined by if hyes or no you can hold a job in the long run rather than earning a lot of money (I mean a drug dealer can earn a lot of money but he's the reverse of. a stable man).

[RyanEC]

I agree.
It should be about stability and wanting to grow financially.

How are you Alice? It’s been awhile since I have seen you on here.

[alice55]

Yes, stability is more important than the amount of money.
I've been good, it's true I have not went here a lot, I've been looking to find a job around my area but it's pretty hard especially since the job that are around my area need a special degree for it (and to get this degree I need to go extremely far to study so it's pretty complicated).
Though apparently majority of drugs dealer went away for some reasons so it been awhile it's been pretty calm here it's a good things. It got peaceful. I have normal neirgbhor now a calm family.

And you?

[RyanEC]

I’m doing pretty good lately other than some issues at work, but nothing serious.

I remember you said you moved out of your village and went to a bigger town.
Did you go back to your village?
I’m glad the weirdos left.

What kind of job.

Have you thought about going to university for a job.
I remember you saying you didn’t go but it’s not too late if you want to try.

[alice55]

Which kind of issue do you have?

Yes I'm in my village now, all the weirdo left it's very good I don't know why but it's a very great things they got away, now it's very calm no scream and no weird people trying to get their drugs all night no matter the hours.

It was a job in security, it was not the most amazing job but th only one that were there but the degree to get it was too far from my home it was in Bretagne. In the end I did not take it becuase the degree needed was too far from my home while the work was just 5 min away it's crazy why they put the degree so far away I don't get it;

I left school at 17 with only a high school diploma and it's a "Bac pro" so it's not the degree needed to enter en university I can technically do it but usually people with a "bac pro" like me are not accepted in university.

[RyanEC]

At work my old boss got fried for a stupid reason and other bosses have came and went over the last few months.

Now the new one is blaming me for not doing things fast enough with low hours and no help.

I’m glad you and your village are better off.

I did quick research into this and I see that France has an adult equivalent of a high school diploma for people who didn’t finish high school called DAEU.

Maybe you should at least get that and see what options you would look at afterwards whether it’s a job or university.

I know there might have been issues in the past but I think it would be worth trying.
I believe you could do it.

[alice55]

Ther's a lot of turn over it seem then, it must be pretty uncomfortable to work in those condition. Why did they fire him?
So they hired an asshoels that's not cool at all.
Yes me too, it was time the druggies left us in peace, their drugs smelled bad too.
Well I did finish high school but I have a special degree which is equivalent to DAEU but becuase I ddi not learn the same things. (it focus mainly on studying a job in my case secretary) then I'm not allowed to get a DAEU and while I'm technically allowed to enter a university we never get selected becuase (in France they consider we did not learn the correct method for studying in university) it's crazy, teacher of university don't want us becuase in their mind people who have my diploma have learnt a job and not the method to go to university the Bac is to learn a the methd of work to be able to go to university (in france) and people with my bac pro are not considered good enough for the university, were not accepted even though technically it's in our right to be there.

But I will look into it, mostly what we can do in my case its professional formation.

Thank you it's really nice of you to say that I will definitley look to see my option :)

[RyanEC]

Basically they didn’t like him for awhile but he got in trouble for getting points on a reward card for someone who didn’t have one.
It’s a stupid reason.

Your welcome.
I hope you think about it and can find information.
I’m glad I could encourage you. 🙂

[alice55]

It sound like an excuse to get him fired, nobody fire someone for such a pretty reasons.

:)
I will check it and try to get in contact with a local center in the city next to mine to know my option and if they can help me (normally hey can help with the price / money aspect)
^^

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. Of course money helps if you are serious about planning a future with someone, but it is not essential for starting a relationship. I had a very low-paying job when I met my husband, and he was unemployed at the time.

[beenherebefore]

It's important that he's career driven, ambitious and financially stable. I never asked a guy how much money he makes.

[Catsandpies]

Its quite enough