Girls, how would you or would you wanna be approached by a boy in public?

[lgh1998]

What would you look for him to say? Compliment or not yet? Gift? Or just be funny?

[DishLady]

I'd never approach a guy unless it's for work. I'll crack a joke or say something with a little smile to break the ice instantly upon meeting one another.

As far as guys approaching, he can just say hi and make a small comment like "you look nice today" or something. Get a conversation going.

[itsnaoxornever]

just say something nice. if she is bitter about it and rejects you, that's probably for the better anyway. i'm sick of the mind games. just say something nice and ask for their number

[lgh1998]

I think this is the way it should be

[SueShe]

Ah, the constant problem of being approached by men. We all know what the ultimate reason, the final aim for that kind of approach is, right? It is not to ask for directions to the next railway station or for a match, is now?

No, I dislike very much to be approached, regardless of the way that approach is done. I much rather be left alone because I am not planning on dating nor on fornicating and therefore, an approach is unnecessary because it will lead nowhere and it is basically just a total waste of time for both parties.

Compliments are actually the worst way to approach a girl because we all know they are not meant and are mostly about the looks of a person. To me, that is an immediate red flag.

[lgh1998]

Thanks for the reply!