Girls, How would you like to be approached by a guy?

[Anonymous]

I often hear girls or women say they can’t stand guys or men who use stupid pick up lines or act overly sexual or weird. The problem is women and girls don’t give clear concise answers online on how to approach them. If a girl asked me, how should I approach a guy. It’s simple, go up and say “hi my name is _______, I couldn’t help but notice (the book your reading), (the shoes you’re wearing), whatever may catch your eye. Yes, technically a guy can say this to a girl but guys are more chill to talk to we don’t over analyze a situation.

[mchltte]

Ill give you a few that are good to use:


• hey i hope im not too forward but i thought you looked beautiful and wanted to get to know you.


• hey im ____ , I couldnt help but notice how pretty your eyes are.


• hey i just wanted to tell you i think you look really pretty


(Its best to use softer words like beautiful / pretty / gorgeous) dont use (sexy / hot ) because it comes off as shallow and only looking for sex

[Asker]

Ok I’ll try those. If any chick kicks me in the balls for approaching her and saying that, I’d be like yoooo @mchltte your wisdom wasn’t wise 😭