How are women shamed for being picky with their partners but then also complain that they chose the wrong guy?

[Imjustagirl1520]

So people complain to women that their standards are too high and that they’ll never find a man, but when she does that, she ends up with a man who ends up to be an awful person, make it make sense please. Can women ever win in society?

[HighValue]

They usually aren't shamed for being picky, they are called out for having unrealistic hypocritical standards. They expect FAR more quality from the man than they bring themselves.

For example, if she wants a tall man, she shouldn't be fat, if she wants an attractive man, she shouldn't have any tattoos, nose ring, short unnaturally colored hair, etc. If she wants a man to be a provider, she should have saved herself for marriage, not have internet, a smartphone, social media, a car, etc. If she expects him to provide like in the early 1900s, she needs to behave that way.

Hypocrisy is the biggest problem with women.

[Imjustagirl1520]

How does this correlate at all?
Thats simply YOUR preferences, some mens preferences are tattoos or peircings.
Huh? she shouldn't have internet? or social media? dude what the fuck is going on inside that fat old head?

[Anonymous]

If a woman has ridiculous standards, and still chooses an asshole, how is that anybody's fault but hers?

They're her standards, and her choices. Sounds like her fault, to me. That's not a shaming issue; that's an accountability issue.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Is your reading comprehension okay?

[WellBye]

Why do all your questions sound like you’re living in Somalia and fighting for survival every day just because you’re a woman? Chill girl, real life isn’t as dramatic as you think.

[Imjustagirl1520]

You’re literally a woman. For loads of women it is.

[WellBye]

You are taking loser men on the internet too seriously.
In real life, in the adult world, nobody criticizes women for being picky, unless you are're obsessed with that “high value” nonsense and lives in a “I know my worth” princess fantasy.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Oh yes they do. I've got told im way to picky by men.

[Nikki1989]

It is always the woman's fault for some men. They are the kings at shifting blame.

[uzumymw]

I'm glad women's standards are getting higher. I see too many guys being total dicks and get away with it

[TonyMetal___86]

Women are already winning in many aspects in a society, but the thing is that men and women are created to help and support each other and not to compete and eliminate each other...

[Imjustagirl1520]

How? and?

[TonyMetal___86]

Just look at how women were from 100 years and how they changed till this day...

[Imjustagirl1520]

Are u actually dumb? You mean back when women werent allowed to work, werent allowed to have their own bank account?

[TonyMetal___86]

For real? Are you actually bragging about all this bullsh*t while you're a disrespectful bast*rd yourself, my son is older than you and i have been respectful to you in all my answers on your questions and now you call me DUMB 😒

Than you're wondering why men are bad, it's because of girls like you!!

[Imjustagirl1520]

You literally said ”look how much women have changed over 100 years” thats the dumbest fucking thing i have EVER heard. Men have also changed by the way. Women got more rights.
How can old men like u be bad if u were born yeaaaars before me?

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm dumb, bad and old, don't talk to me anymore, ask someone who is smart from your age range, bye!

[Imjustagirl1520]

Obviously

[Berethor]

It's all about balance, being too picky is bad, taking anything that you find is also bad.

[Anonymous]

You must be joking.😆🤦‍♂️

I know you're only 16. But are you speaking from experience?

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yes. Its sad i have better experience than a grown man.

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't sound that way.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Oh because YOU haven't experienced it? right?

[Opinion Owner]

I could care less why a woman rejects a guy. She can reject a guy for any reason under the sun. If she's super picky the only person she hurts is herself.👍 Most of these women that super picky never are happy any how that should probably be the first clue that, it's not the guy.👍

[Imjustagirl1520]

How is being picky bad when it comes to men? Yeah and what if they lower their standards and that guy ends up to be a killer

[Opinion Owner]

There is nothing wrong with being picky. I thought I already said that. It's some of the things they're picky about. And most of the girls we're speaking of actually CHOOSE the serial killer. Ever heard of Natalee Holloway. As I said women being picky doesn't bother me. Be as picky as you like. Just use your head. Most of those women I speak of are picky and still don't use their head.😆 And that is why they fail.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Do you say the same thing when a woman cheats on a man?

[Opinion Owner]

If a woman cheats on a man she's just showing her true colors. Because there is no defense for cheating. It sucks when it happens. But in the long run it's a good thing because the guys knows her true colors and he can get away from here. It would be worse to waste more weeks, months, possibly years with a cheater.

[Imjustagirl1520]

its the same for men?

[queenofcardio]

Unfortunately, we can never win

[Anonymous]

Because that's what happens when women prioritize looks & money over personality.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Okay? hasn't got anything to do with this but ok.

[Opinion Owner]

How does it have nothing to do with? Women have high standards, but their high standards don't help them get a guy worth being with, and the relationship most likely won't last bc the guy they end up with isn't shit

[Imjustagirl1520]

god ur dumb

[Opinion Owner]

Okay lol