Do you think girls who date men much older than them (12+ years) look for a father figure in their partner?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Yes

They just care about his money

[MontBlanc]

Sometimes, but not always.

Age-gap relationships can involve maturity, stability, or life experience not just father figure dynamics. Some women are genuinely attracted to confidence, emotional security, or shared values.

Assuming it’s always about parental replacement oversimplifies things. Attraction is nuanced , it’s about who they connect with, not just age.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Sometimes that can be true yes.

[MontBlanc]

Exactly, Attraction is rarely simple.

It’s about connection, values, and comfort, not just age or parental dynamics.

[Abbycado]

I couldn’t say. Some might. I’ve never had an attraction to older men. I want to date close to my age.

[Vegasrunner]

No. Its because the things that make a man attractive take time. The things that make a women attractive dont.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

No bro most of them just have daddy issues or are gold diggers

[Vegasrunner]

@shrimpenjoyer I've been with over 400 + women all are Gold Diggers some are just better at hiding the shovel.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Did you got with all of them once you turned 40 🤣

[Vegasrunner]

@shrimpenjoyer No spread out over the course of 30 years. My best runs were from 22-24 28-30 38-40

[zagor]

I don't think there is a single answer to that.

[Hagar88]

You got to understand how hard things are when starting out for young men vs young women. A young man might not be a desirable partner for marraige until he's on his late 20s unless he's like a pro athlete. Most women don't want the struggle that comes with building a life, they want to move into an already made home with the hard work already done.

[bobalife]

It could be many things: is it for a sugar daddy? a more emotionally mature and stable man? Father figure that’s missing in their life? Or a young inexperience girl who fell for the wrong men?

[smashleyy]

God forbid a girl takes care of the elderly

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Lmao

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Don't take care too much

[exitseven]

yes, they have daddy issues.

[msc545]

No, I think they are looking for money.

[FunkyMonkee]

How many actually HAVE 12-year old dads?

[Laurenvol]

Hard to tell