Do you think it's 'wrong' for younger girls to like (or date) older men?

[Anonymous]

I can't help but feel really attracted to men around the ages of 30-50. And that's crazy, considering I'm 16. It's not like I don't like guys more my age, but if i had the choice to date i'd go with an older guy anytime. I know many girls feel the same way.

Take famous actors as an example. If you make me choose between say johnny depp and liam hemsworth, i'd choose johnny depp everytime.

and it's not just some actor influenced thing either, the same goes for people that aren't famous but obviously I can't post pics of regular people here so I chose famous people as an example.

I find this infatuation very strange. Opinions?

*this is about girls liking older men, so bear that in mind before commenting something about boys liking older women. Of course it can be brought into the argument, but just make sure it doesn't lead it please.

Not wrong to like, but wrong to date.

Wrong to like, not wrong to date.

Both are wrong.

Neither are wrong.

[oneinchyuri]

Johnny Depp is good looking. It's okay to think older men are good looking and appreciate them but you take it a leap too far when you consider having an actual relationship with someone those ages. That is the age of your parents, and plus you are underage. They would be pedophiles.

If you think of them sexually or actually want to pursue a relationship with a man so much older, there is an issue with that.

[Asker]

I didn't neccaserily mean I were to engage in a relationship, because obviously that's illegal. But like an 18 year old or older, what's your stance in that?

[oneinchyuri]

Personally, I am uncomfortable with it. But I guess if it's legal, safe and consensual then there isn't anything neccesarily wrong with it.

[Asker]

I get that. Thanks for your input!

[_rachelle_17]

No I don't think its wring... I was in your shows before thinking its wrong to date an older man... But I'm dating one now and its great

[realperson02]

hormones!! 😂😂. lol it's just part of you becoming a grown up woman. since it's kinda natural for woman to seek "stability and maturity" .

[TrollG0D]

When I'm 50 I'll be dating 16 yr olds too. Nothing wrong here. Do you!

[oneinchyuri]

Uh, that's pedophilia?

NOT OKAY!!!

[TrollG0D]

I'm not dating a kid so that's not pedophilia.

[oneinchyuri]

I'm talking about your statement. Which is most definitely pedophilia.

[TrollG0D]

How is it pedophilia? A 16 year old isn't a kid, even the legal age of consent is 16 in some states and many countries.

[Asker]

@oneinchyuri actually, that's hebdophilia which is (biologically seen) much more logical. With the years it has become denormalised but in certain areas it's still considered normal. But those are not always out of love of course.

[TrollG0D]

What tf are you talking about... A 16 yr old isn't a child. People become sexually active from younger ages then that (I'm sure you did too).

Plus, girls always like older men. Always. So if she likes me and I like her, where is the problem? 🤔

[characterJoe]

I think it relates to nature. A doe will go after an older buck with younger bucks around. It is somewhat female intuition to seek "stability when nesting."

[landyman]

you like what you like that's up to you hun I like younger females

[Anonymous]

Whatever turns your crank. As you get older and more mature it won't matter to you. But there will always be those who want to judge everyone but themselves

[vividblu]

holy shit. I mean I can understand 16 and 24 or something but your way off ! your getting yourself into huge trouble.

[Asker]

How am I getting myself into trouble? It's not like i'm acting upon it. I probably will in the future but right now I would never, since it's illegal.

[vividblu]

when it's like that yeah. the cops don't mind here in va if it's 24 or something and she's 16. I mean yeah i strive to go at least 18. but you sounded like you were 16 and wanted to go after a 55 year old man. That's horribly sick. And why would you want to? There's absolutly no values or similar connections. really there's none. And the looks are way off. everything's way off.

[Asker]

I don't think dating someone that age would work well, since that would make them a hebdophile.

I disagree. Age difference does not mean there's no connection. It's only "off" because you've been taught so. In many countries it's very normal for young girls to be wedded to older men.

[vividblu]

Yea if she's mature earlier and her parents are down with it.

[Asker]

Lmao my parents don't decide who i date, and especially not if I were 18+. That's fucked up.

[vividblu]

No! I mean I'm saying if you were 16 or 17 and you wanted to date a guy older than you like 23 or something. wouldn't you need to make sure your parents were okay with that age difference? or do they not care about all that?

[Asker]

Not really.. they'd think something of it and say it as well, but if you can't prevent something it's best to support it.

[myaharmon21]

I'm 21 , my husband is 56. Maturity Matters.

[vividblu]

god almighty. that's sick.