If a girl who I used to work with reached out to me when we are no longer coworkers, would she agree to a coffee date?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Seriously? Do you think she just sends random messages to guys? She didn't reach out to you because she was bored. She misses you and now that you aren't working together, she's hoping for a closer relationship. Ask her out, but not to coffee. You're past that, you already know each other. Invite her to dinner.

[Asker]

Why could I ask her out on a date?

[slatyb]

Why do you think she contacted you? She wants to see you again. Invite her to dinner, not in general, offer a specific time and place. If she can't, she will say "Ooh, I can't on... I'll be free on..."

[Anonymous]

if she's reaching out to you, do better than coffee. At least take her to lunch in a nice, quiet place where you can talk, and pay for the date even though she reached out to you! You get ONE chance to make a first impression on a date, so don't fuck it up.

[Asker]

Why could I ask her out on a date?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't understand?

[Nikki1989]

If you can't figure this out on your own, you are probably in no position to be asking anyone out.

[laddsk8er]

I mean if she reached out to you, then you at least know she's interested in something. Just ask lol.

[Asker]

It should be obvious just to ask?

[laddsk8er]

Not obvious that she's expecting you to ask for that specific thing. I was just saying if she reached out to you first, then you at least know she is interested in talking to you. Also it's a coffee date, I wouldn't stress over it like you're asking her to come over for the night or something lol. A coffee date sounds like a nice way for both of you to figure out if you're interested in each other.

[Asker]

Right I understand. If she doesn't agree to a coffee date she is just playing?

[msc545]

None of us knows the answer to your question. I suggest you just ask her.

[petitedollbabee]

Ask and find out.

[Anonymous]

Lucky you two ☕

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[In_Trance]

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