What should I give to my boyfriend on White day?

[Stelotle]

I'm kind of slow with this romantic stuff. On Valentine's day, he brought me to a fancy restaurant and then gave me perfume, body lotion, and a letter. I felt bad cuz he's been coughing for 2 weeks so I chose not to give him chocolate but instead made him a ginger honey drink. Though it's kinda shit, so I felt much more guilty, I honestly didn't know what to expect so I didn't think I would get that big of a gift.

Since Valentine's Day has already passed I'm thinking of making a concentrated ginger honey for him, but other than that I'm stumped and I don't know what to give to him.

[ohsheeT]

If he's sick, don't worry about it today. Give him some more warm ginger, honey, put some real cinnamon in it. It has me real sentiment , some cold flu medicine , water seven up

Make a pot of chicken soup
Give me a Gill card that has an IO. U in it

[Stelotle]

thank you for the kind wordss

[ohsheeT]

If you do. Give him chocolate, give him dark chocolate. That's the best for you

[dragoblack]

85%-90%dark chocolate is fine because it helps with healing. Aside from that, spending time with him and showing him you care deeply, even when vulnerable, is always a good gift. Not sure which country you are in, but in the USA it means a lot to show a guy you care, especially when he is vulnerable. Aside from that, if you want to give a physical gift, give him something that supports his interests or hobbies.

[Stelotle]

He likes games and golf. I'm planning to buy him a Nintendo Switch game card, but since it's way above my budget I'm thinking of giving it on his birthday (24 Nov). Any other suggestions?

[dragoblack]

Custom golf balls

[Stelotle]

ouhhh thank you for the suggestion

[MontBlanc]

Honestly, it doesn’t have to be big, it just has to feel intentional.

Something personal beats something expensive. Maybe his favorite snacks, a handwritten note, or something that reflects an inside joke you both share.

White Day is cute, but effort is what actually makes it meaningful.

Thoughtfulness always lands better than price tags.

[Vampirelover_12]

It's cute until he rejects you.

[MontBlanc]

Rejection can happen regardless of the gift.

The point isn’t guaranteeing an outcome, it’s expressing something sincerely.

If it’s not reciprocated, at least you showed up authentically.

[Vampirelover_12]

Or he called you "ugly", "fat", or implied your breasts were too small by rejecting you. Give him flowers? He gives you pain.

[Stelotle]

thank you for the kind words

[Stelotle]

@Vampirelover_12 thank you for worrying

[dragoblack]

@Vampirelover_12 you really need to process and work through your trauma. Projecting it onto others is not good and looks really bad. It will only cause problems for you down the road.

[Vampirelover_12]

@dragoblack It's not projecting. It's the truth. Men don't want to be attracted to women anymore.

[dragoblack]

That's totally innacurate. Men just want to be respected, supported, and treated as people, instead of an object of leisure & financial support. Treat him as a person, support his interests, and be thankful for the little things, and women will have higher chances to be with men. It really is that simple. If you can't do that, the problem isn't the men, it's you.

[Vampirelover_12]

@dragoblack If men wanted to be seen as humans, they wouldn't be walking around shirtless.

[dragoblack]

Ah... so you are just sexist... no wonder you struggle to find someone.

[Nikki1989]

Tip: Don't allow anonymous comments on your posts. You will avoid a lot of trash.

[Stelotle]

thank youu

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Paying a fancy restaurant, perfume, body lotion, and a letter?

I'd feel stumped and guilty too lol, it's way too many gifts in on go, especially if your finances don't follow his...

[Stelotle]

exactly... so what should I do?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Ideally, it would be great if you were just being honest with him as you are with us. But it depends on how relaxed your communication with him is, depends on how relaxed he is also, and I can't judge that, you can.

[Stelotle]

thank you for the advicee

[jshm2]

Aside from a BJ, you should get him something he will actually use but is within your budget.

[Stelotle]

lmao thank you for the suggestion

[Xoirwinkan]

Most guys don't really care for gifts, so love and affection are the true things men value. Cuddle, snuggle, make him feel like the most loved man in the world.

[Stelotle]

Thank you for the encouragement

[exitseven]

Is there really a White Day? A holiday for White People?

[Stelotle]

Haha no, its a holiday that originated from Japan. Where usually men give gifts to the women that had given them gifts in Valentine's Day.

[exitseven]

iit figures

[Alex-Snow]

The ginger drink is a great idea. Don't overthink it.

[Stelotle]

thank you so much for your kind words

[StevenMcGarrett]

In the United States, March 14 is known as steak and BJ day. A month after Valentine's Day, it is the guy's turn to get what he wants.

[Unycorn]

What's the White day?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I didn't know either, so:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Day

[Unycorn]

Oh wow. Didn't know either. I thought Valentines Day is commercial at top. But I see, there is always anything bigger than you imagine XD

[douride2]

Just curious but what is white day?

[Stelotle]

It's a day where (usually) men give women who gave them gifts in Valentine's Day gifts to reciprocate their care for that women. Though as of my case it's the other way around.

[douride2]

I see. Thanks.

[Iron_Man]

White crackers

[Stelotle]

thank you for the idea

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[beefcakebradybatson]

Your white body !!!

[Stelotle]

haha thank you for the suggestion