Do expensive dates actually impress women?

[robocop666]

Woman I know has had some fancy dates over the years. Does it work to impress women? does booking a taxi, an expensive meal and spa treatment get you anywhere?

[Abbycado]

Yeesh. Spa treatment? I have never heard of that on a first date.

I am sure it impresses some women. It really doesn't for me. I like simple and thoughtful more than money and flash.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Your boyfriend is lucky

[MontBlanc]

Sometimes , but not just because they’re expensive.

Thoughtfulness and confidence impress more than price.
Effort creates attraction. Money alone doesn’t.

[Alex-Snow]

For some... maybe. But it is the quality of the conversation and getting to know each other that is more important

[Staximus]

Don't do all that shit until you know she's worth it

[robocop666]

my friend will tolerate nothing less

[robocop666]

man on the internet spent 200 on a first date? what the fuck?

[Staximus]

$200? Hell, that's small potatoes these days. I've heard people spending much more on a first date

[robocop666]

and in this day and age some women will not ever do 50/50. Some men refuse it too. Idiots.

[Summeroflove]

Short answer it can. Longer answer if you have the means to afford it or you both do and she’s amazing you been seeing her for a while absolutely go for it dude. It can also show thoughtfulness if it’s something she wants and if she genuinely likes you she will appreciate it.

But it’s better to start small. Blowing money on a woman isn’t going to make her more or less attracted if she’s not into you but you spend money on her. She’s staying for that reason….. She will definitely leave you and will definitely cheat 9/10. A genuine woman will just leave regardless.

What’s better? Simple dates where you can talk and relax without any pressure on either of you. Coffee is a good first date. Either of you can leave at any time or if things are going really well you can stay as long as you want. If she refuses because she wants to go somewhere expensive she isn’t wanting you for you anyways dude. I’m sorry…. She just ain’t.

Going for coffee. Taking a walk or a picnic etc is a much better way to bond with someone before going on to more expensive dates

[dragoblack]

The objectifying, self entitled, and toxic ones do. A healthy minded woman just wants to have fun and spend time with her date.

[Agape93]

Nope it just shows me you like to brag and can't handle your own finances.

[robocop666]

not me other people. My friend likes them.

[Agape93]

Good for them?

[NathanDavis]

I've never needed any of that to impress anybody

[888theGreat]

Liberal women? yes, Conservative women? No , They want future kids taken care of , not spending everything in one night.

[queenofcardio]

It works for some women.

[LC75LC71]

They sure drain wallets..