Is it wrong that I find white men universally unattractive and off-putting?

[Anonymous]

I don't hate them but, their features and personalities are objectively unattractive, in my community we value small straight thin noses and they tend not to have that, they have more body hair than the normal men in my country and it looks like beastiality if a woman gets with one.

They have the personality of Eliot Rodgers and the masculinity of a white lesbian at most, they always complain about something so they can avoid accountability, they either blame migrants or women for the dumbest things that have no correlation.

They have a natural smell that I cannot accept, I'm not blaming them as it is their genetics but if you grew up in an isolated community where everyone genetically has a mutation to stop you from having body odor due to dry earwax, body odor from them is objectively demonic.

They're hypocrites as well, they change narratives to suit them so they can look good, I've been online for a few years now and they have no problem with being insensitive and harsh towards other people groups but when you give them the same energy they start acting kumbaya and like they have emotions.

They also like being "edgy" and giving "honest criticism" so they can just get away with saying anything to anyone but God forbid you criticize that and it's a threat to freedom of speech, they apparently believe anyone who doesn't like them is a woke leftist that hates straight white men...

Am I really wrong for not liking them , is it wrong to say that they're objectively unattractive physically, culturally, genetically, biologically and religiously unless you're a slanty eyed woman who can barely see? I can't stand them truly

[Summeroflove]

It’s wrong to feel someone’s inferior because of race. Bur you’re not obligated to feel attracted to anyone though it’s odd to me.

[Asker]

Oh, how's it odd

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Lol I loved these paragraphs, it was attractive.

[CriminallyInsane]

You like what you like for whatever reason you like. It's not wrong or right.

[Still-alive]

Liking what you like is like cool 😎

[Anonymous]

Attraction and respect are not the same thing.

Also the culture has been very anti white male for the last 10+ years. You are getting bombarded with negative messaging about them on social media, news, etc. You are seeing the worst of the worst of them. And it’s impacting you subconsciously whether you realize it or not.

Also about the white men not being masculine. You actually got a point about that. But lots of white men are being brainwashed since they were young kids to kiss ass and not be aggressive.

They have far less leeway to be bold and outgoing without being harshly criticized. Especially if they are calling something out that a woman, gay person and/or minority is doing wrong. The other party can immediately use their built-in cushion and claim discrimination.

So what you are saying is true BUT most white men didn’t voluntarily become like that. Their environment has become hostile, guilt inducing, etc.

If you are not attracted to white men, fine. Attraction isn’t a choice. I’m personally not attracted to black women but that I’ve become good friends with a few of them. I can RESPECT them. And respect isn’t the same thing as attraction. Remember that.

[Asker]

I interact with them and it really feels like an absolute drain and I can understand why people hate them. Majority of you are awful to be around and no one wants to be around you, that's why you apparently have the highest self unaliving rates because of loneliness and social isolation.

You're not masculine because of the way you act, you don't take accountability, you have to blame someone for your actions, whether it's Jewish people, women etc. I never hear white men take accountability, there always has to be a 'but' when it comes to explaining their obnoxious behavior.

From what I've seen of you on the internet and real life you have way too much arrogance , you have no problem going out of your way to disrespect people just because you don't like them, you're the biggest hypocrites I've actually ever seen and you keep moving goal posts just to keep people down, you're petty, insensitive hypocrites and that's what gives you the feminine nature, you act like the bitchy, popular teenage girls that no one knows how got popular.

You and the left wing people you hate are just opposite sides of the same coin, you're the same, a bunch of whiny, entitled, arrogant, unattractive, selfish, racist idiots.

From what I've seen of the interactions between black women and white men I highly doubt any would be friends with your group of men, you're the same sick weirdos who were making fun of them for being too ugly to be assaulted by Jeffrey epstein, this isn't an isolated incident, most white men are truly this disturbing, you don't respect people's preferences either, you're the ones who say liking black women is akin to beastiality but go out of your way to insult them for not liking you because you people believe their too unattractive to have preferences and consent, people don't like you for a reason. Don't even bother blaming Jewish people for it either, I'm sick of hearing it.

[Opinion Owner]

You are full of so much hate. Lots of projection going on here. You must be absolutely miserable.

If you want white men to change this not how you do it. Also why won’t you tell anybody what race YOU are. I’ve noticed you haven’t mentioned that anywhere. Why?

[Asker]

I'm not projecting, I'm just saying facts. I am miserable, I wake up being reminded that white men exist.

There's no other way. I'm not sure what race I am in America but I like to say I'm afro asiatic ( ancient mixed people with west Asian and African). I don't think it adds anything to what I say

[Opinion Owner]

I am glad you aren’t white. But again you are mixing attraction with respect which is typical of women (all women). A woman doesn’t find any value in a man (looks, money, personality, etc.) she thinks it’s okay to treat him like he’s expendable. Less than human despite the fact he might have never done anything to directly hurt her. Women (particularly feminists) expect to be treated special JUST for existing. Regardless if they offer anything of value to the man or not.

Also besides high suicide rates almost nothing you said above is “factual”. But I do know that white men have been factually discriminated against in hiring and promotions via DEI. I also notice that leftist mass media and journalists often use the phrase “white male” in a derogatory since.

Did you see “The Batman” movie with Robert Patterson? There was a scene where Zoë Kravitz (who played cat woman) outright talked about the evils of white men. It was WRITTEN INTO THE SCRIPT. That would been cause for protests, boycotts, etc. if it said about anyone else. I bet you loved her character if saw that movie.

Anyway if you aren’t attracted to white men. FINE. Fine. Physical attraction isn’t a choice. But respect is a choice. Being racist is a choice. Hate is a choice too. And you are labeling and disparaging 10s of millions of people. Socially acceptable or not (and it’s literally encouraged by leftists nowadays) it’s NOT okay for you to be racist towards white men. Not the same of not being attracted to them.

[Asker]

I'm glad I'm not white too. Men do it too, especially when it comes to black women, you're hypocritical. Just like men think it's okay to compare liking black women to beastiality, we're both racist but I'm the only one who is honest about it. I don't care for feminism nor white men.

Prove what I said isn't factual. So do I but I still don't care for them. They'll walk it off.

No I didn't and I wouldn't want to.

Correct, it's just a biological response to something biologically repulsive and parasitic. It isn't it's a response to obnoxious people from different races, I'm racist just like white men but I'm honest about it. Respect is a choice made when it is earned, they didn't earn it. Just like they do to certain people, so what? It's encouraged by your behavior, it's alright to me. Are you white?

[Opinion Owner]

Im white and I am generally not attracted to black women. I’ve had to (respectfully) turn a few down over my life too.

But I am still friends with some of them. I RESPECT them. I got to know them and I really liked them too. And tbh I was frustrated with myself for not being physically attracted to them because I really liked them otherwise. But I once tried to force myself to date a woman I didn’t find that physically attractive (but really liked otherwise). That ended very badly and I’ll never do it again. Not fair to her or myself. Attraction isn’t a choice.

But I’ve also grown far less attracted to white women recently. Reason being many of them (especially where I live) are WOKE white women. They are desecrating their natural beauty and femininity with ugly tattoos, multiple piercings, stupid unnatural hair colors, etc. They used to be high in demand by all men from different races. But I’ve even heard of some of my minority friends saying they are turned off by them too. At this point, I would take a classy black woman over a woke white woman any day.

But again physical attraction is NOT a choice. And I would never in my life think it’s “beastality” or something that gross to have sex with a minority woman.

Also who are you talking and paying attention to? What kind of white guy are you noticing? Sounds like you notice the worst of the worst.

I also think you got some confirmation bias going on. You already have a preconceived notion of white men and you are more prone to notice ones acting that way to confirm your own judgment.

I’ve dated more minority (Latino, Asian) women then white women in my life by the way. There are cultural differences. But that’s not the first thing I look for. I look at personality, respect and looks (of course)

[Opinion Owner]

Also were factually correct about white men being more socially isolated and having much higher suicide rates.

But seriously would white guys be acting that way if they were so “privileged” and everything was going great for them? Do you think that’s trend is happening “voluntarily”?

[Asker]

I doubt it, black women are the only race of women who don't like white men and like them less than vice versa. A lot of you confuse being nice with being attracted to.

You're not the same species, stop trying to act like it's a bad thing.

I'm pretty sure Asian women have always been more desirable than white women, I don't think it's true because they look like a deformity mixing jaundice and down syndrome but it's statistically true apparently, no one likes chink women here though, always ugly.

You're 0.0001% of white men ( I have a feeling you're middle eastern or north African)

The average white men in real life and online on YouTube, reddit, Twitter, TikTok and even on this site, 99.99% of them are like that for whatever reason.

Most of them are just not good people... At all.

For me race is important in dating and friendships, my people only stay with each other and we have stricter and older caste systems than India, when the colonialists raped our girls they typically aborted the pregnancies and isolated themselves to avoid tainting the tribe, some of them killed themselves because they were ashamed of mixing, no amount of soap and water made them feel clean. We see suicide in such cases honorable.

[Asker]

Listen I agree the left is bad but most of you do a bad job with your reputation when you take out your frustration on black, Indian and ESPECIALLY Jewish people, you make a lot of enemies and eventually they'll get fatigued

[Opinion Owner]

Alright I am going to wish you the best. But your prejudice towards white men is not going to work in your best interest long term. Thats not the same as dating them or even liking them. Date who want and marry likewise. But you seriously have a problem with hate.

This is a spiritual issue. You need Jesus Christ. He’s the truth, the life and the path to salvation (which is open to all races if they want it).

And I offer zero apologies for avowing that. You don’t have people problem but a spiritual problem. I only know because I’m human myself and just as capable of falling into feelings of hate and anger. Jesus never preached murder, discrimination nor prejudice.

[Opinion Owner]

Also this is going to off kilter. But join a MMA and / or jiu Jitsu gym. Martial arts is one place where race suddenly means a lot less. Just try it.

[Asker]

I don't like anything to do with Asians or their culture, do you have any other suggestions besides that?

[Asker]

I don't think I'm prejudice to white men, I just think I'm fatigued by the behavior, entitlement, arrogance, racism and whining from them, most are awful to be around just like most black women quite ghetto and loud

[Opinion Owner]

I hate woke white women the most out of any group of people. And I am a white guy saying that.

But notice how I said WOKE white women. I didn’t say I hated other white people. I didn’t say I hate all women. I just hate the WOKE segment of them. Because they are disgusting hypocrites (to the point of “suicidal empathy”) just so they can get “social kudos” with their alienated group of friends.

But again. Notice how I am criticizing an ideology and sub group of people. Their gender and race is tied in but my main disdain is their ideology.

You likely hate a subset of white men. But labeling 10s of millions of them like that is allowing your emotions take over everything.

[Asker]

I'm only saying that because I haven't met many white men that weren't absolutely abhorrent, just yesterday on YouTube I saw a comment from them making fun of black women being so ugly that only their family members are likely to rape them... What kind of sick freak thinks that. So many of them with disgusting hearts and minds, they even go after their children, aboriginals, Indians and of course the jews, they have different opinions but hate the same people for the dumbest, most disgusting reasons, most of them blame the black community failing on black women being fat and unattractive despite the crime rate and lack of education black women's looks is the most important thing even siding with black men despite them stabbing random white women and assaulting babies because they think it cures HIV but a black woman being unattractive and wearing makeup and fake hair is obviously more important, Asian women shave their jaws, have rhinoplasty and plastic surgery but black women with detachable fake hair is apparently worse than some of them call for their genocide... I'm not kidding, there's a site where you can see this behavior, it's called 4plebs

[Opinion Owner]

“ just yesterday on YouTube I saw a comment from them making fun of black women”

I see plenty of things on social media that disgust and infuriate me. But it’s my choice 1) to notice it 2) to engage 3) and last but not least let it get to me (because I made the mistake of doing 1 and 2)

I’m also intro perspective. I’ve said and does stupid things I’ve regret in the past. I’m not going to guilt trip you indefinitely. But I will man up and admit that I’ve been wrong before.

But engaging in hate is a tool of the devil. It’s not going to bring up fulfillment. And ultimately it hurts YOU.

You need Jesus sister. Just like I need him. I personally really hate woke white women. But I need to pray of an effective way to deal with that hate. Because without God I’ll just be miserable.

[KostasKouvalis]

Preference is one thing, but that's straight up racist. I'm guessing from the "No Body odor gene" that you're Asian, so I'm not surprised that you're racist.

[Asker]

I'm not Asian actually 😅

[blueonblack22]

Are you white?

[KostasKouvalis]

@blueonblack22 She's definitely not Indian

[blueonblack22]

There are a lot of woke white women out there nowadays who love bashing on white men because it gives them “social kudos” in their own circles.

Deep down they crave an old school tough white guy. But THEIR FAULT in the first place that so many white guys are acting this way. It’s because of feminism.

However I don’t know what her race is yet. But I got a bad feeling she’s white herself.

[KostasKouvalis]

@blueonblack22 Possibly, as there was another Whigger on this site

[KostasKouvalis]

youtube.com/shorts/AdO9X7Lxzvs?si=Lge6ecYgBnoLd5eH

[blueonblack22]

💯💯💯

[blueonblack22]

Minority men are getting real fed up with woke white women too. Talked to a lot of black / Latino guys about this.

[KostasKouvalis]

@blueonblack22 Apparantly his black wife wrote that joke for him. I think maybe the first part. The second part sounds like him. Either way, he isn't wrong. Both statements are true.

[blueonblack22]

Because woke white women really don’t care about the supposed disenfranchised people they claim to “support”. It’s really about THEM. Is about the “look at ME!! I’m woke. Praise me. I care more about social cohesion and social kudos then the truth.”

But minorities are seeing through this bs. It disgusts them too. So it makes perfect sense that Bill Barr’s wife helped write part of that skit.

But we still haven’t found if the asker is white or not. I got a bad gut feeling she is. And deep down she wants a strong white man. But it’s because of woke white feminists in the first place that many white guys are acting this way.

[Asker]

@blueonblack22 Blaming everyone but yourselves, I'm surprised you stupid faggots aren't blaming the jews this time 😂

[blueonblack22]

My prognosis: projection. Plain and simple.

And WHAT race are you? I’m going to go with woke white. You are ducking that for a reason. Same reason you went anon like the little bitch coward you are (whose probably licked a few p*ssies in her lifetimes).

[blueonblack22]

Also you are not “brave” for bashing on white men. We both know if you went on a lengthy deranged diatribe about ANY other race of men (black, Latino, Asian, middle eastern, etc.) you would be forever labeled a racist (and you are a racist).

White men are only “safe” category of people you dump all your projection of hate on with little fear of consequences.

But it’s really not white men you hate. Nope. You hate yourself and this is just projection. And you’re not very good at it. And again you yourself are white.

[Asker]

@blueonblack22 Not projecting, you're playing the blame game but you're not calling me a liar

[Asker]

@blueonblack22 Oh please when you bash white men you get other men comforting you like condescending women comforting their fat friends even though they know their friend sucks.

I don't like niggers either sand or regular, nice try. I am racist but I'm not a liar either.

I don't hate myself or white men for that matter, It’s not hate; it’s biological repulsion. I'm simply exhausted by your veiny, hydrocephalic noise and your desperate need for validation.

[OneViewpoint]

Your life your choice. I could not care less.

[Asker]

Nice cope

[slatyb]

Not at all. We like what we like. There's no such thing as equal opportunity dating. If you aren't attracted, don't date someone.

[Tomislav7]

Beautifully said I hope that Tom guy from down under gets the message !

[Asker]

Who's Tom

[Tomislav7]

This one guy noone likes here he thinks he tough shit but like u said he's a little bitch

[Alex-Snow]

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and their likes and dislikes

[abc3643]

Subjectively unattractive, not objectively.

[Asker]

In my community it's objective

[abc3643]

Your community is incorrect.
Objectively means that it is essentially a universal truth and that everyone will have the same opinion. Subjectively means that it is primarily just your opinion, although others may also share that opinion, but it is not universally shared.

[Asker]

Everyone in my community has this opinion therefore I say it's objective and universal in our sense

[abc3643]

It's not universal. It's subjectively universal in you community.

What is your community?

[Asker]

Yes it is subjectively universal in my community.
I don't want to give too much detail but I'm from a very separatist people group in southern Africa

[AngryCarl3]

I have the same problem with Americans.

[Asker]

All white men are pretty much the same around the world, it's not an American problem, they're just like that

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you

[MasterKS]

You like dark chocolate?

[Asker]

Black men are ugly

[Tungi]

Nah it’s up to you you can’t help it