Is it racist to be attracted to only white men?

[Merimanr]

yes

no

[curiousnorway]

Race preference based on physical appearance isn't racist. How a person may prefer brunette more than blondes some people prefer some races more than others. Some facial features, body builds and hair types are more common among some races than others, so if you've a preference for certain features it's natural to have race preference too. We've different tastes on what we finds the most beautiful and attractive.

But if your race preference is based on stereotypes and you refuse to date anyone just because of their race despite the other attractive qualities the individual has, then it might be a bit racist. Stereotypes like "I don't date X because they're annoying" or "I won't date Y because they're all criminals" are racist prejudice.

It's common to date within our own race because it's what we're most familiar with and familiarity is something that may attract many humans. It takes time to get used to new looks, new people etc. I thinks humans biologically likes familiarity. Only some likes a bit exotic look due the diversity in the gene pool is important.

[madhatters4]

great answer!!

[curiousnorway]

@madhatters4, Thanks you.

[madhatters4]

it depends on your reasons. if it's because you associate something positive with white men and/or something negative with other races then yes it may be racism

[madhatters4]

consider it this way... i prefer brunettes but i have dated and married a blonde
so if you prefer white people then you should still be open to dating non-whites
if you'll only date white people then it becomes a question of why. the answer to why would suggest whether it's racism or not

[OreoMilkshake]

Lol this is dumb. She can have a preference.

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake did i say she couldn't have a preference?

[OreoMilkshake]

You suggested that and am i sexist for being attracted to women?

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake where did i say that?

[OreoMilkshake]

I'm using the same logic your using here

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake sexual orientation is different from racial preferences. you're comparing apples and oranges

[OreoMilkshake]

No i'm not, i'm using the same logic as you.

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake you are using the same logic to compare entirely different things

apples to oranges. until you can learn to truly argue with sound logic please refrain from commenting. i don't want to waste energy and time.

[OreoMilkshake]

No they are both similar things in this context. You just can't answer my question

[madhatters4]

i never said you were sexist for liking women so i'm not going to answer a question you asked on a false assumption. i never said it was sexist for liking women. that's why i didn't answer your absurd question

if you want to compare sexual orientation to racial preferences you go right ahead. head down a path of false concepts. i couldn't care less

[OreoMilkshake]

I never said you did, i just asked if i'm sexist for liking women USING YOUR logic.

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake you are not using my logic. you are using logic used by a girl further down. my logic is preferences can be racist or the can be. it depends on the reason for the preferences.

[OreoMilkshake]

You just agreed with me earlier that i was using the same logic. I win, you lose.

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake dude i can't with you.
this is what i said.
"you are using the same logic to compare entirely different things"

you are trying to apply logic in a different scenario where logic is not applicable... thanks oreo but i'm done with this. i'm tired of talking in circles with you.

[madhatters4]

kindly refrain from responding. i in turn will no longer offer opinions on your questions.

[OreoMilkshake]

Lol okay, i mean you could have just agreed that i was right and you was wrong, but it's cool

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake whatever works for you. if you want to think you are right then that's fine.

[OreoMilkshake]

The only people who disagree are insecure men like you lol

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake ah name calling the last resort of a person with no arguments. this makes two days in row that you've challenged me only to come up short. see ya tomorrow?

[OreoMilkshake]

Lol i didn't come short though, i won all the arguments. I don't want to waste my time with you.

[madhatters4]

@OreoMilkshake good then go away

[OreoMilkshake]

Stop replying then

[Pink2000]

It depends on your reason for not being attracted to other ethnicities. Usually I'd say it's a preference but there could be a deeper reason. I was only attracted to white guys told myself I'd never date a black guy. I ended up hating the white guy now I'm with a brotha.

[Justacatlady]

It's a personal preference. Nothing racist about that.

[nanserimonus]

Is it sexist to be attracted to only men?

[Merimanr]

or homophobic lol

[nanserimonus]

Exactly xD

[OreoMilkshake]

Good point lol, preferences aren't racist in the slightest. i personally think people who get upset when someone has a preference are insecure or jealous that they aren't attracted to them or their race. It sounds immature and childish but it's true.

[GeorgeDubyaKUSH]

Why is it that in our society, a white woman that is only into white men is racist, but a white girl that is only into black guys - and constantly insults and bashes white men, and hates and despises white men, and tries to act and sound like she's black and was born and raised in the ghetto when she's a well off white girl from the suburbs - is considered "open minded"?

[RolandCuthbert]

I just want to yawn everytime I see a post like this.

Dude, just be attracted to whom you are attracted to.

[MackFreeze]

You don't believe white men are superior to other races. You are just attracted to them more. Your fine.

[worldscolide]

not racist at all, nor is it something you can control. it would be the same as calling a black man racist for liking only white women, or calling someone a transphobe for not wanting to date a tranny.

[None11am]

No, attraction is attraction. Think of it this way. Over 90% of marriage are mono-racial, ie blacks marrying blacks, etc. They're not all racist. Attraction is a choice, just go with it and be happy.

[OreoMilkshake]

No lol it's your personal preference. The only people who would say it's racist are men who like your race and get jealous. It sounds immature and stupid as fuck but it's true.

[JohnDoe3000]

Yes, unless you can honestly say you've met every non-white man on the planet and were not compatible with any of them.

[deraz24]

No only when you hate on other races for no reason but other thanthan that its just a preference

[azzntittiz]

Aren't you white yourself?

[Merimanr]

yes..

[azzntittiz]

So how's that racist?

[yashjoy]

attraction n differentiating based on their race are completely different things.
you can sate whoever you want to.

[Wolframium]

No, it's your sexual preference, don't let SJW's tell you otherwise.

[Anonymous]

I can't believe some people said yes. Hopefully they are trolling.

[Anonymous]

its only racist if you start to think all guys from other races are inferior to White men. if you simply like White men , then its perfectly fine.

[johnmichaei]

I don't see it races I've dated in my race out of my race and around my race

[Yaman2002]

you can't change your feelings, so no it's not

[Vynar]

21 people voted yes
Humanity is doomed

[SK8-Benny7]

I'm only attracted to white girls. Nope.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, it's your preference of race.

[dsrice]

No that is your preferrance

[Decentguy]

Whatever float's your boat