Why would you say that on a first date?

[Anonymous]

So I went on a date not too long ago, the girl I met said her child’s dad was a first date. But never got in a relationship? Or continued dating?

Now I’ve thought about it, was this her was saying hey I’m easy now sleep with me or just wanted to see my reaction? She actually doesn’t have kids fyi.

[Screenwriter]

I'm completely confused. This woman has no children and she told you her child's father was a first date? Was this a question from her? "If a date said her child's father was a first date what would you say?" Just what if conversation?

Otherwise, something seems off about this person if she made something up about herself that wasn't true. If that is the case, some red flag should be rising.

I'd want clarification during a further conversation.

[Nikki1989]

Sounds like she changed the play because you didn't meet her expectations. Although it was a unique approach, it was evidently successful. Kudos to her.

[OneViewpoint]

The proper response to her moronic shit test was...

"Oh yeah, cool, I've done the same thing. I think I've got like 5 kids with 5 baby mommas now from first date fucking. But I don't have a job so I don't pay any child support. Your place or mine?"

[Asker]

That’s what I think too, but random to say she puts out on the first date

[OneViewpoint]

Some women have some weird ideas about these shit tests. They get the ideas from Cosmo articles, etc. When one tries this with me I just respond with a comment even more outrageous than their stupid shit test. It's fun to watch their brains short circuit first and then they slowly realize, "oh this guy is on to my shit test." Then they realize the date is over.

[WindAtMyBack]

This could be interpreted in a couple of ways. Was she saying that she got pregnant on the fist date with that guy? Or was she saying she got pregnant by the guy who was her first date? These are two very different things.

[Abbycado]

Wait, she has a child but no kids? How does that work?

@HollyK21 what am I missing?

[Abbycado]

I guess she is a liar. That is a red flag, wouldn't you say?

[Asker]

She was lying, she my reaction to her getting pregnant on the first date?

[Abbycado]

I'm guessing that is what she was looking for. I would steer really clear of this crazy. Lying on a first date... about having a kid? Yikes.

[Asker]

Yeah, but weird tbh

[CaptainSmartass]

Definitely. She's putting out more red flags than a Russian military parade...

[Abbycado]

Never seen a bigger red flag. Ever.

[HollyK21]

I’m glad I read the comments first because based off the post itself I was confused lol

[Abbycado]

@HollyK21 I was too. She is just a huge liar in the end.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 sorry 😂 perhaps I should have explained it in simpler terms

[queenofcardio]

That is very strange

[exitseven]

she sounds crazy to me.