Why are women hardest things on this planet to reach out?

Question

They are always like a dream. You have to do everything to get then as a Man:

Make money and work
Provide for them
Eat well and workout
Dress well
Smell good
Say good things and hit on them
Don't be shy
Try everything

And still you cannot get any of them.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

i think you're watching too much redpill content and are probably doing things without realizing that are preventing from getting bitches. pretty much no woman expects you to provide for her in western countries, everyone expects 50/50. it's only some sugar baby types or very conservatrive trad wifey types that want that. i don't get where that whole concept of western women wanting you to fund their lifestyles and pay everything comes from, like i've always have this impression that men who provide are really rare and are a regressive relic of the 1950s and that for the last few decades it's been 50/50 for like 97% of people. i've never been to taught to expect that in men. I don't even let men pay for me on dates unless they really insist.

you don't need to make bank unless you want someone very hot if you're not. women generally just have a problem if you're truly broke (unless they're broke themselves in many cases. i'm currently broke and a broke man is all right for me personally, because we are in the same boat).

muscles are hot but you don't need to be jacked either to get women, just be at a healthy weight.

most men dress like shit unfortunately, and still get dates.

if at your grown age you can't get women, you probably either have a personality problem or you're shooting way above your league

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

This troll likes to play victim; I'd be surprised if he doesn't carry around his own body chalk.

Theunfadeable · Accepted Answer

When I was young I used to believe this bullshit, but I found out it’s only half true or only true in some instances. Every man should be making money and working eating well working out and smelling good on principal.
a lot of guys get fixated on women who aren’t that interested in them but when you find a woman who actually likes you, you don’t have to jump through all those hoops.

I learned a lot from hanging out with a group of hot female friends when I was in college. These women had all types of guys kissing their asses, falling all over them, taking them too expensive restaurants, and buying things. They have absolutely no respect for these men and treated them like absolute trash,.

Guess who they fell in love with and got all heartbroken over. Some dude with no education no job who lived on his mom’s couch. The same woman who intimidates you because you think she has all these high standards, It’s probably on her way to bang some dude with no job and he’s not gonna be taking her on a date. Once you realize that your whole perception of dating becomes completely different

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Who knows, it's a mystery...

realbiggrin · Answer

Try try and try again but ot maybe in the way you think. Work on you not like in a take a shower type of thing.(hope that isn't something that takes work for you...) anyway, work on you as a person take a bunch of dollar kites to a park and start flying kites and giving them away , with a mother permission of course then get another kite I fly some more. I know it may not make sense to you now but if you do it you will feel the difference in you and you will began to be intriguing to yourself as well as others, um, as long as you shower. Just try it.

lightbulb27 · Answer

because you got it all wrong and remain selfish and confused. That is nature, to oppress the weaker (emotionally) males so the other males succeed.

once you figure them out, they will change. It isn't what you think, so learn to think differently.

you have to love them... note to self... that is an emotion, and be socially worthy, then you'll win one.

An unattractive smelly guy with no job... but with a lot of skills, will walk into a venue and win over 2/10 women. If you don't ask me, just looks at some rock and rap stars.

Rangers · Answer

Dude, find yourself a sweet girl

Stop adding every expectation from different girls up. Yes, there's girls who just want to bleed you dry and thus make your income a huge factor, and there's sweet girls who could give a damn if you have no money.

I once admitted I was $2,000 in the hole to a girlfriend and she stayed with me. $2,000 in the hole, as in not $2 in my bank, and $2,000 in debt. I still worked 55 hours a week at the time.

She didn't leave me for the money or someone else, she just fell out of love

Levin · Answer

Mostly when you don't give a fuck about them, they come.

Whenever you try too hard, things go south.

I always had most success when I had nothing and didn't care about them. They all wanted to sleep with me.

In my favour, I was very good looking though.

live2dance25 · Answer

There’s an easy answer, stop hitting on women. If you are intelligent, dress nicely, exude confidence, and aren’t an asshole, women will come up to you and ask you out. No BS I’ve gotten asked out from standing in line sick at a Walgreens to at a beachfront bar with friends.

MontBlanc · Answer

I think it’s not that women are inherently hard to reach, it’s often about trust, past experiences, and safety.

Many women have learned to be cautious about who they open up to.

Being approachable requires patience, respect, and genuine intention.

The “hard to reach” feeling usually reflects boundaries, not unwillingness.

MikeMcMansion · Answer

1. Don’t be unattractive

2. Don’t be too attractive (this is actually a problem especially if you’re not too sociable/a bit autistic) you’ll be prey for predators and desperadas.

Then when you can successfully pretend to be normal with people you’ll probably be too old by then and not rich enough to make that compensate for your age.

Curmudgeon · Answer

And, at a certain point, when the hormones drop off, and the bad experiences add up (or DON'T add up), you must ask yourself, "Is she worth it? Are they worth it?"

And increasingly, the answer is, "Nope..."

jshm2 · Answer

LOL, they are people - just like anyone else. Your problem is thinking they are some sort of animal or object you have to "hunt" or buy.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Because women do not want what it is that men really need. Men expect three things from any woman for the commitment they want. Respect Loyal Amenable stable Why is this so hard?

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Dude you're trying too hard and doing all the wrong stuff. Well smelling nice is good but most of what you do is just inviting girls to exploit you.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Not worth the hassle

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

if you are doing everything you listed correctly then you won't need to chase them. they will chase you instead

LiamJHayden · Answer

Women are individuals. Some are very high maintenance and others are super easy-going. Approach the chill ones.

Anonymous · Answer

because your standards are too high young, attractive, hot women will always be the hardest to get.

WonderingManII · Answer

With Women you are either In or Out. Nothing you can do about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow you really don't get it do you... the very answer you seek is in your own question... people want what thry can't have

Abbycado · Answer

Drama queen XD

MrChinaski · Answer

They can smell desperation.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

And be a rich white boy !!!

robocop666 · Answer

if you look good its easy

Boulemakh · Answer

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