Am I one of the very few Asian men in AMWF (single at the current moment though) for opposite reasons?

[Anonymous]

I only realized the huge AMWF and WMAF discussions on the Internet. Reddit, X, Facebook, etc.

Had been four AMWF relationships in the past, two in US, one French and one German, both naturalized dual citizens, and two in AU, one German-Dutch and one Danish-Swedish, both international students.

Never posted any AMWF or "[my nationality]-[her nationality] couple" kind of contents or hashtags. Not even willing to let my direct relatives (meaning, parents and grandparents) talk to extended relatives about it, let alone share our photos.

Never dated a Western female who is into watching anime or K-dramas or listening to K-pops or leaning Chinese. Not deliberately avoiding them, just feeling not attracted to them, at all.

Have no issues with Asian females or WMAF couples. Just not attracted. Never want to compare or compete with White men who get Asian women. If they do not bother me, I have no problem with them.

My four White girlfriends all belong to the kind of White women who are neither attracted to nor biased against Asian men, but neutral, thinking Asian men are polite, clean, reliable, etc, but nothing particular. Feel good for me, but is a very delicate and niche subset of White women I like. The 1488 type will never look at me anyway, no matter how good-looking and confident I am, and the weebs do not attract me, on the other hand, so only a relatively small subset suit me well. Quite hard and delicate, I have to admit.

Had a few Russian and Ukrainian women pushed to me by friends but never got interested. Always felt no interest there. Seen many Asian men saying both look-wise and personality-wise, they are the easiest to be compatible, but I feel neither.

Curious how it is like because I only stumbled on this AMWF (and WMAF) thing very recently.

Updates

4 mo

My romantic idea has always been having a very quiet, private, loving life in New England, or a farm in the scorching hot Australian Queensland or freezing cold American Midwest (or Patagonia), or sailing through the Dalsland Canal reading the poetries of Geijer and novels of von Heidenstam in the original Swedish, just as a few possible examples. Just no one bothering me and my future wife. Am I a tiny minority or it is just the online discussions are heavily skewed and charged?

[SueShe]

Allow me to tell you as well what I keep repeating to others with those cryptic questions.

If you want a reply to your question, ensure that people actually understand what you want to express or the message you intend to send across.

You can use the update box to rephrase your question in such a way that it makes sense. People don't want to have to check manuals, reference books or the internet to try to decipher the content of your question. This applies mainly to your extensive use of coded words, acronyms and the like.

When you update your question, do it in such a way that children aged 13+ that are here on G@G will also understand and grasp the meaning of what you are asking.

Thanks for your understanding.

[ManOnFire]

Asian people period tend to obsess over whites, although Asian women do it more than the men. Most foreign men are not trying to date American women though.

Where do you stand on Asian women being with black men?

[In_Trance]

You need to get off the internet

[Asker]

Why? I’ve been on the Internet for G-d knows how long. Only looked up AMWF (and WMAF as well) topics since two weeks ago because I heard so many weird talks (weird for me, at least) for so many times?

[Anonymous]

I have no idea what you are talking about.