If a guy is on an dating app, how many girls is he usually talking to?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

There’s really no good way to generalize this. Mainly because every man is different, every experience is different, and some factors may play a role for some that doesn’t for others. Location, access to matches, their own personal appearance, personality, and if they can even attract multiple matches, let alone one or two.


If I were a woman using a dating app, I wouldn’t concern myself with how many women a guy was talking to because ultimately I think we are both trying to find the right person and part of this experience means exploring your options. He may have a few but you should and/or could as well. What matters most is the end game, aka getting off the apps completely and choosing to focus on one another. Until you get to that point, just don’t put all your eggs into one basket and don’t expect him to do the same. At least not while you see he’s still actively using the app.

[Anonymous]

Only losers use dating apps, so they need to talk to as many women as possible.

[dragoblack]

Depends on if he is super attractive, but on normal its 1 or 3. Gus don't get matches that often and 98% of matches tend to just ghost, say 1 word then ghost, be false flags, or be onlyfans solicitors trying to get them off app (normally snapchat) to relentlessly persuade them into joining their onlyfans. Even when talking to women there's a high chance of the woman to lose interest over 1 or 2 things, and sometimes the woman just wants a hookup. Talking to multiple gives us a higher chance of finding someone... plus, whichever girl goes for the relationship step first gets him. Talking doesn't make one unavailable/off-the-market

[Master_Debator]

Depends on the guy...80% of guys get no play at all. Top 18% maybe get 2 or 3 girls to talk to them a month, And then the very top 2%... they just get all the pussy. I mean those 2 or 3 girls talking to some of the other guys have already been fucked by this 2% and they're left wondering why they didn't want a long term relationship.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy. It's typically advised for a guy to talk to as many women as possible. But in general you're lucky if a guy is talking to anymore than one woman at a time. Common sense applies hun. You go after the bigger game he's going to have a lot more women interested.

[Anonymous]

Due to low match rates, the average man on a dating app is typically talking to 0 to 2 women at any given time. While some men may juggle 3-5 conversations.

[msc545]

0. The only women that talk to men on dating apps are the women that want money. So, it might be a marginally higher number than zero, but not by much.

[DryGermanGuy]

42! I counted them. :-)

[Staximus]

That depends on the guy

[jahaims]

Guys aren't an algorithm

[Anonymous]

0-1.