Its normal to talk to multiple guys you found on a dating app right?

[kareenakapur]

matched with soo many in one day. couple got my number. i ghosted a lot-- had to, was so overwhelming.

been talking to two though now. Thought one would ghost me by now. but its been a week and I'm talking to them both, facetiming them both. sexting one lol having deepppp serious marriage conversations with the other. both seem hella serious about me and are so sweet. This is normal to talk to two guys at once right or am I being a hoe. Just seems weird because in person obv that's a huge no no. They both live super far from me.

Updates

10 mo

just had the dating app for a day I mean. And have been facetiming two guys from it. Deleted the app now. Stressed me out lol and I like these guys.

[berisky23]

I think most people on dating apps play the field until something serious actually starts to happen.
Don't stress and enjoy

[kareenakapur]

but is Ft'ing playing the field. its starting to feel serious with these two guys. rest of the guys hell no. but these guys feel serious. Its scaring me ngl

[berisky23]

Okay, then ask yourself which one of the two you'd miss more if you could never talk to them again.

Or more simply, see how each date goes in person.

[kareenakapur]

i live hellla far from both of them. They both live closish lolll 2.5 hours away from each other. Theyd have to fly here or I fly there lol. At that point, it'd be serious af if they wanted to meet me in person.

[berisky23]

I fully see your point! I'd just see how it goes. I'm sure you'll find it out when the times right!

[kareenakapur]

yess or one will ghost me soon

[In_Trance]

Just remember what comes around goes around

[kareenakapur]

lollll ur soo right. like im talking to two exclusively but I keep getting jealous and wanting to be upset when i know they had to have been talking to girls too. One guy said I'm 99 percent better of a texter than anyone he's talked to lol. at least i have that. other guy I'm sexting ain't no way other girls doing that with him. I'm a hoe.

[kylee2437]

Sounds pretty normal - but also sounds like none of them are bound to be anything serious in the slightest bit.

[kareenakapur]

you're right loll it's a specific religious dating app for finding spouses. so its like less tinder-y if you get what i mean.

[kareenakapur]

I started the sexting with the other guy I was hella horny lolll. other guy seems more religious and I think I'd scare him if I tried doing that.

[kylee2437]

Yikes that’s sound that non religious men are signing up for religious apps

[kareenakapur]

lollll I mean im not that religious and signing up for it. It's just about finding someone of the same religion. I'm a smaller sect of the religion too, so these guys are the same as me.

[kylee2437]

Interesting lol still sounds about tinderish. Same exact process and guys wanting to sext or guys wanting things too quickly ugh

[kareenakapur]

yeah lol he didn't even want to sext though. Was being sooo respectful. I'm stupid and started that loll. Thing is in my religion, things go quickly usually. It doesn't "look good" to talk to a girl for a long time. It's seen as inappropriate lol. My sister knew she was marrying my brother in law in legit 1 month.

[kareenakapur]

im not trynna go that far

[Adogdog]

I think that's normal.

[kareenakapur]

i hope sooo. I just dont like dividing my time and not giving one of them my full attention. I'm scared they are prob talking to a million other girls too ugh.

[Adogdog]

They probably are honestly, and that's normal too. Nothing wrong with single people chatting. Just take it slow and find someone good. That's what I am doing, even though I not having much luck at it lol

[kareenakapur]

let me know if you need help I'm hellllla smooth

[kareenakapur]

or help with your profile

[Adogdog]

Okay, Feel free to message me then lol

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. Don't rush into exclusivity.

[kareenakapur]

i already did with two of the guys oops

[bananathunder]

yeah... weed out the weird ones lol

[roy_ricky09]

Hahahaha desperation

[kareenakapur]

shut up lol