Guys, do you prefer a mysterious woman or one who’s just herself?

[bobalife]

[OlderAndWiser]

I want a down-to-earth, girl next door. I am married and got half of what I wanted: Miss Helen is down-to-earth but she comes from China. . . not exactly next door!

[bobalife]

I’m happy for you! ☺️

[HawkPerception]

Sounds to me like the longer you're in the relationship with her, the more you're realizing the differences in your cultures are affecting your view of the relationship and your dissatisfaction level.

[OlderAndWiser]

@HawkPerception I am gaining more of an appreciation for the differences and learning to live with them. I still think she is the best woman I have ever known.

[HawkPerception]

@OlderaAndWiser I respect it!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Ya gotta use it like pepper or even thyme. Just here and there. So that the flavor playfully dances around the dish of experience

Mysterious is fun when you're being playful but it's easy to trap yourself into feeling like you have to keep an act up I think.

[bobalife]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 omgoodness, silly potato head, little bit ingredients for sugar, spice, and everything nice… to make bobapuff girls

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Sounds like cereal

[bobalife]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead!! Would you eat bobapuff girls cereal?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Straight out the box

[bobalife]

😂😂😂😂 how does it taste?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Could actually use a little lemon to balance out the- 😱🥶😓🫢🫥

[bobalife]

It’s that bad? 🥺 hmph. I’ll add a lemon drop and maybe I’ll use my special ingredient… the potatoooo 🥔🤩😄😂

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Ayeeeee 👑🌹🕺

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's irrelevant because I haven't met mysterious women, or mysterious men for that matter, instead I have met secretive men and women protecting themselves. With good reasons to do so.

So, If I'm interested in her, platonically or not, I'm going to break into her fortress as much as I'll open mine. And, yeah, I do like the process lol

[Grond21]

Just herself, one million percent. In fact, when surveyed men answered the question, "what do you most want to tell women?" almost universally with the phrase "Be yourself".

[bobalife]

Thanks for the universal rule reminder :)

[Grond21]

Haha, my pleasure

[bowenw]

I prefer her to be herself most of the time, but she can have fun being mysterious at times.

[bobalife]

I think it’s fun with a combo too 😆

[bowenw]

A combo is good and it's also nice to throw in other fun personality traits depending on the mood.

[exitseven]

I have enough mystery in my everyday life. I pick the down to earth one.

[bobalife]

😂😂😂

[Cyfris]

Herself... I can't wait to get to the point of a relationship with farts and messy hair and my favourite t shirt always being dirty.. Mystery is just another problem to solve and men have enough of those already.

[WindAtMyBack]

I want to know who I'm dealing with. No mystery woman. No fake stuff. What I see is what I get, without a bunch of guesswork. If I need to guess, then there is total lack of communication.

[nolabels]

I like a little bit of mystery, but not too much.

I don't believe that I know any woman who doesn't possess some degree of mystery.

Cheers!

[DryGermanGuy]

I would assume the mysterious woman would be interesting for a holiday flirt. But in daily life you need someone dependable. 🤔

[MikeMcMansion]

Mysterious means dramatic and untrustworthy, autistic simps might think they like this but no man that most women want sexually would want a “mysterious” woman for more than a few quickies.

[AgentG111]

All women are mysterious. This is absolutely funny question.

[Kaneki05]

Even if a girl is herself they're a mystery so...

[msc545]

I'll take the one who's herself. The one who it's mysterious; it's hiding things from me.

[slatyb]

I want a woman who is mysterious when she is being herself.

[MidnightRivers]

Just herself haha, mysterious is nice but I like it when she's confident and always in her element

[ohsheeT]

For sure just herself

[Mrtcn01]

being just herself.. especially sex desires.. :D

[jahaims]

Obviously someone who is theirselves. Real life isn't a movie

[Still-alive]

Just be herself of course. Always :)

[Still-alive]

While it won’t always work its the only real way it ‘can’ work. I’ll even add that sure you can put on some mask but eventually its gonna slip right off. I try to give new relationships at least 90 days before I really go all in because of that. :)

[bobalife]

Thanks for the 90 day rule tip :)

[Still-alive]

Haha yeah. Consider it a warranty on your heart! Love guaranteed or your money back! Lol 😂 :p

[V4valiant]

She can be mysterious as long as it's her true self.

[MereAnarchy]

I prefer a woman who is mysterious when she is being herself.

[888theGreat]

straight forward , no pretending.

[Anonymous]

Depends on her looks.

[Jeff51]

Herself

[shortster]

Herself