Men, why did you stop courting or dating altogether?

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of women leaving the dating world behind because too many are clearly behind and or are clueless to court.

[Staximus]

This girl that I knew for a while, really liked a lot, and went out with decided that she would rather go find a guy who was able to support her and a child that didn't exist yet. She was baby crazy because her son died and wanted to have another child before she was too old. Now she's stuck in a unhappy marriage and wishes she married me. I just need to get out of California because women's standards here are totally fucked. I'm not tall, I'm bald, I don't have the body of a gym rat, I don't have a good job and I work all the time, I don't have a new car, I don't wear trendy bullshit, I don't have some privileged education. These are all things that I have been rejected over again and again since my 20's. Never being a drug addict, a criminal, arrested, alcoholic, cheater, gambler, isn't good enough. Always being a hard working good guy and standing behind my friends and family, always helping people, etc has mostly just gotten to use by women as a means to an end or to solve their life problems. This is all just left a sour taste in my mouth and made me feel like I'm not good enough for most women around here. My friend told me to move to Oklahoma with him, that I would have women by the truckload. He said they just want a guy that is but a piece of shit, has a job and is not a drug addict.

[Staximus]

Women here are extremely superficial, this place is Sodom and Gomorrah all over again

[HighValue]

Most women are very low quality and would only make my life worse, not better. Why would I intentionally be with someone that would make my life worse?

I'd rather not deal with the stress, drama, greed, lies, unfairness, etc. and be single.

[Anonymous]

You're kidding right? Most of your gender really doesn't want a relationship. And the few that do, want it completely on their terms.

Nobody likes rejection. But men were happy to do it when there was a chance of success and something to be gained by it. Neither is true anymore.

And there was a time when a man had to put in time and effort to sleep with a woman. This forced him to get to know her. This allowed her time to see if he was completely full of 💩. Neither of this is true anymore either. Women give it up all nice and easy and proclaim they're taking control of their sexual destiny.😆

You want guys to be men of old? Your gender has to start behaving like women of old. Don't want to do that? Don't expect much to change.👍

By the way. That last part had NOTHING to do with equality.

[Alex-Snow]

I have not but from what I see on the internet and sex surveys etc. It looks like a lot of Gen Z (which I am one of) prefers to masturbate and not go on dates etc. Maybe social media has something to do with it... I'm, not sure. But speaking for myself I enjoy sharing a lot of orgasms with some one besides myself. What have you noticed with your boyfriends? Do they have less of a sex drive?

[Bricealan]

I wasn't aware that men stopped dating. Maybe I am clueless about dating in contemporary society?

[Ariesman81]

Did a risk/reward analysis and came to the conclusion that it's just not worth it.

[Anonymous]

I'm too busy working to date and add to that my failing health

[Nikki1989]

Where are those men at?

[jahaims]

Poor cultural and societal values