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Yup, I've given up. Although I have a small penis myself (not that you are; seven inches is the ideal size women want), this is mostly due to my height. At 180, I'm undateable for all women who aren't complete dwarves. And it's not like short women don't want tall men either; they want tall men THE MOST! They are considered the most desirable to tall men (not that tall women are undesirable), so most couples end up being tall men with short women.
There's nothing I can do about being a f*cking dwarf and being undesirable to 100% of compatible women/being desirable to 0% of compatible women. So I gave up, because there's literally nothing I can do about it. I'm not even eligible for leg-lengthening surgery. Just two more inches/five more centimeters, and I'd be in the datable zone. But I'm not. I could go on endlessly in how much this infuriates and pisses me off. But I won't.
I just accept what is and move on in life, love, sex, and companionship free. And I try to be happy for the men who were lucky enough to be in the radar of women and relationships. And at least be happy for those guys, even if it's something I'll never get to experience myself. At least I won't grow bitter that way.
I did after failed multiple attempts at an LTR, the last of which got all the way to being engaged to be married.
But I shifted my whole strategy after that. Instead of seeking dates, I sought out friend after friend. I made friends and then they'd introduce me to their friends, and I'd make friends with those friends, and their friends' friends, and so forth.
Pretty soon I was having a Birthday party or wedding or barbecue or some other social event to attend almost every weekend while constantly meeting new people in this community of friends, and that's how I met my now-wife at a picnic (she was a friend of a friend).
Yet we were both reluctant to date each other right away and stayed friends for almost a year before we finally started dating. I think giving up on dating was actually one of the best things I did to find the best love interests since, although my wife was the very best, I met a great woman after a great woman when I changed my whole strategy this way (they're almost all happily married now).
I have not given up on dating. I don't date. End of story.
However, I must say that I don't really believe your story because either you checked on 2 girls out of the millions and those 2 bimbos fried your brain with their stories and you assumed that girls are as superficial as those 2 were.
Truth is that the +.5+ billion married couples worldwide have not had that kind of issue otherwise the world would be made solely out of single people.
Perhaps you should not watch that much porn and concentrate on the real important things of life. I don't know what country you are from but it seems that those 2 girls have made an excellent job at causing you to react that way.
Yeah, I have given up. Tho I have never dated so I don't know if that's really giving up.
I don't ever want to fall in love nor catch feelings.
Doesn't seem worth it for me.
Everyone just end ups hurt. It's just good when it's the one, as people say.
But no one knows who's going to be rubbish and who's going to be the "one".
I don't know, just seems like a lot of effort and self harming.
Ig it's just that I'm unable to see the positive side.
Even if someone gets married, feelings can change overnight.
So, I officially give up on something I didn't even start yet.
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Well considering the average guy has a 5-5.1 inch dick at erect level, it sounds like these girls have some severe entitlement issues. It doesn't speak for all women though. To give you some scientific knowledge, even 7-7.5 inches erect according to a lot of studies accompanies less than 1 out of 100 of men. It's classed medically as rare. (Source - Health Guide).
I suppose for their pretty out of touch standards you can blame porn? Personally I just think it's just shitty perspectives on things that are quite unrealistic, caused by narratives/images perpetrated through over-sexed media to young brains. It therefore creates false ideological images and perceptions of how the world should be and how others around them should be. That's my opinion though.
The problem with dating today is that a lot of people have misconstrued dating as an excuse to just engage in hook ups and casual sex. The consequences of this are that a lot of people get to an age where that just doesn't work anymore, and this is when the loneliness and mental health problems start coming in. This is partly the reason why some people that actually want monogamous and committed relationships don't want to date anymore. They spend a good chunk of their youth and their years that define how they think towards the concept of the dating having bad experiences, so they give up.
I don't think that's the right way to go, but I'd definitely be cautious as to who you are dating and be prepared for any disappointment or shock. I remember having advice from a guy saying that a relationship can be fine one moment and then go down hill the next, and it's true. You never know what that one person might do, think or say. So date by all means, but be prepared for any outcome.
I wouldn't worry buddy. If girls watched a video of what guys wanted? None of them would date either..
I don't have 7" and I've told every girl I can recall that I have an average
size dick before we have sex. EVERY single one said "I don't care"
Lol, everyone wants done ideal thing, but almost all settle for less than it. 18 cm is plenty for most women.
Yes I given up on dating. So not Worth it anymore
No, I'll give up till I'm old and crusty.
Just about.
Yeah I gave up
No I haven’t
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