Dating
3 mo

Did I dodge a bullet with this guy who lied and juggled two of us?

Met this guy and he texted me and set up a date the next weekend. We quickly started hanging out and going on dates, lots of amazing sex and he was started to pick up on communication.

I asked if he was going to ask me to do something for Valentine’s Day, because some other guy asked me out but I’d rather do something with him. He seemed really offended I’d say that and said “you can come cook me dinner.” I obviously was upset and said that we could cook together and he backtracked like that is what he said.
I noticed more weird things like he was really into guns, which isn’t a big deal to me but a little strange and he kept the second bedroom locked and verbatim told me not to go in there. He said he had some of his dad’s things in there that need to be sorted out. He also told me to heel once and clicked his tongue at me (“as a joke”) when I walked in front of him. He and I kept seeing each other: going to massages, dinners, yoga, etc. and a month and a half in he said his mom wanted to meet me and they organized a dinner.

Meanwhile, he’s telling me I’m the only girl he’s seeing (mind you). I go to dinner with his mom, sister and mom’s husband and the whole time his mom is obsessed with me and saying how cute of a couple we are, how he better treat me right.

A week passes and we are hanging out more and I get tickets to a hockey game and he comes over. He has a hickey on his neck. He lies and says it’s from shooting at the range and proceeds to show me the way his gun lined on his neck. Later that night he admits he slept with a girl he’s been seeing since before me, and she “begged” him to come over the night prior.

I found the girl, called her and she said he’s been telling her he hasn’t been sleeping with anyone else. Says he met her friends (he met mine) and he’d fix things around her apartment and ask her to do his dishes and shit. It seemed way more casual with her, but what would you do? It’s bad in my opinion

Did I dodge a bullet with this guy who lied and juggled two of us?
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