Why can I make gaming friends easily but struggle to find a long-term boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have tried online dating and that was very much trash and got me frustrated. So I started going out more and socializing but each time I went to the city centre which was Manchester wasn't having good with meetup and the guys went fast and couple up. This is one of the learning disabilities charitiy and that was also making me upset and frustrated that I didn't get a new boyfriend. Why do I seem to noticed on G@G women that user seem to judge gaming as hobbies for both men & boys and just as well as other women playing video games?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I never considered gaming "friends" as friends, more like agreeable co-workers instead. Neither of these "friendships" survived the test of time because this apparent friendship revolves around a common interest, the game. Remove the game and see these friends most likely disappear.

Whereas a long-term lover is entirely another story, as a romantic relationship requires much more than just a narrow interest shared to exist. It's supposed to be a total, complete psychological, physical and sexual experience instead.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's kind of asking why you can easily find a wooden armour but struggle to find a golden one. The latter requires much more effort and luck to find or craft.

[AviatorTom]

Gaming friend involves no commitment.

Boyfriend requires commitment.

[Agape93]

Well because gaming friends are just casual acquaintances. And you're probably struggling to get a long term guy because you're not very attractive right now.

[Asker]

@agape93 My physical appearance has no bearing on the question i asked Pleases keep focused on the subject

[Agape93]

You asked why you can get gaming friends easily but not a long term boyfriend. I just explained why. So yes it has bearing with this question.

[Abbycado]

If your physical appearance has no bearing on the question, why did you post photos of yourself? Asking for a friend.

[Asker]

@Abbycado I posted pictures because of people ask for them. that is doesn't make my appearance

[Asker]

Agape93@ you didn't address the question I asked. commenting on my attractiveness isn't an explanation

[Agape93]

Who asks for them? Nobody on your other post asked

[Agape93]

If the reason you aren't getting a long term boyfriend is your appearance, then it is the explanation, even if it isn't the one you want to hear.

[Asker]

@agape93 you didn't explain anything. you made a comments on my appearance , which has no relevance to long term relationship or the question that i asked.

[Agape93]

Yet again, your appearance is unattractive which is why you have trouble getting a long term boyfriend. I've fucking told you this 3 times now. Guys don't want ugly girls. Plain and simple. Really fucking simple to understand.

[Asker]

Agape93@ my appearance clearly hasn't stopped me from dating. I've had nine ex boyfriend's. so bringing up ugly girls doesn't answer my question at all

[Agape93]

It's stopped you from getting any that last. 9 dudes left. But maybe this dense attitude is why they left you.

But whatever. You don't want answers and won't listen, so have fun.

[WellBye]

who's gonna tell her 😬

[Asker]

? :(

[HighValue]

It's the looks. Try fixing your hair better, wear nicer looking pants and sweater/over shirt. The t-shirt is okay how it is.