I cannot seem to get a boyfriend despite conversing with and texting men, but then have to start all over with new men?

[KatieSims24]

So far the two guys I was texting and did go out with have had one, but he was busy. Got back into dating. There are some guys I try to text but then they ask me a sexually explicit question before we meet up. They are the ones that got blocked. Stay away from any sex-related questions. The new guy and I were texting each other. We met on chat & date and now we're texting each other on Facebook. Did he ask you if you prefer messaging on messaging apps or dating apps? We asked each other questions to get to know each other. Then we discussed his birthday was on 16 July and mine was on 15 July. That is one of the rarest finds. They both went to different colleges in Northwich. Music, social media and transport. He kept texting and asking questions?

[Paul09]

Take it, or leave it. You are not happy, then leave. Why you worry so much about being with someone? Worry about yourself first. Keep working on you. And then maybe during that time you'll meet someone better. If it's really that bad in your area, maybe move? Because things won't just fall into your lap. Communication is a priority in a relationship. Make sure you have plenty of that.

[KatieSims24]

I'm not even dating anyone. Since I can't get there at all. Also, I can't even move since the price is going up. Not interested in loud ass men and big ego. Real life dating hasn't work.

[Paul09]

Welcome to men's dating world lol. Where we have to do all the work. So maybe all the great guys are sick of being rejected, maybe shy or whatever the excuse is. Dating isn't fun anymore it seems. Especially at my age, very hard to meet anyone.

[KatieSims24]

I'm a woman, not a man and I can only date certain types of men. That is learning disability since I got a learning disability. Got more options than other people. I'm not interested in some of them that act immature or reject to put me into the friend zone that I got a lot from app hiki. So I delete it.

[Paul09]

I'm just saying it may seem that way. You need to change where you hang out. Change job, pick up a hobby, join a group, take up classes etc. Maybe where you go , there are full of useless men.

[KatieSims24]

I already did change jobs so nothing and I'm not interested in dating coworkers. Try hobby didn't work since they were all too old and my dad friends. Try joining more than one group and no guys that are interested in relationships but only interested in looking for friendship. I even join a youth club and still no one there is a part of the not a legal age men that I'm not interested in since he was too bossy and act very rude. The other man already has girlfriends.

[Paul09]

Where on Earth do you live?

[KatieSims24]

Most annoyed part from england

[abc3643]

First, welcome to G@G.

Please tell us about yourself so we can gain some context regarding your situation.
Knowing that, we may be able to give you better ideas for meeting a suitable man.

If you are not willing to be specific here, you can PM me but I am not sure you can do that yet. If not, follow me, then I can PM you.

[KatieSims24]

I'm a 24-year-old woman. Has been trying to do some online dating and did try real life dating hasn't met single men but kept meeting men that already have girlfriends. Live in a big town. Full of nothing good guys. Guys with big egos are always messing with me and not interested in them. The same with guys that are outside of my age range kept messing. My age range is 19-27. We also did some sexual questions that also turned off.

[abc3643]

You need to give us a lot more than that.
We need to know who YOU are.

[KatieSims24]

How much? I also can't help you since my level is not high enough. Special learning was disabled, got verbal abuse by some female friends from previous friendships and previous relationships. I have a learning disability. Used to attract guys through college but I wasn't interested. Both of my ex boyfriends are also still attracted to me but I'm not attracted to them because some of them were cheaters. I had trouble with being friends with some women.

[KatieSims24]

Meant pm.

[abc3643]

To PM with me, you must first follow me.

[KatieSims24]

Okay.

[Adaeva]

Your problem is the same as 40 other young women with very similar questions on GAG. You can have any of a dozen guys; you just can't have the guys you want. There is no magic advice for attracting guys above you league; therefore, you must settle for guys you can get or do without. I'm sure you already know that; you are just hoping for some magic.

[KatieSims24]

Your underage. .

[Paul09]

She's still right.

[melanieeeB]

Don't give up and that's pretty normal...
Like when I used to date actively I would usually meet at least one men per year where there was potential of becoming more and can't even count the amount of guys I just had first dates with lol

[melanieeeB]

But I'm pretty picky tho so I'm sure you might find someone faster than me but yeah keep talking and meeting until it's right. Rather stay single then be in some awful relationship

[KatieSims24]

That what I have been doing so far but still restarting with someone new for some has not worked out.

[melanieeeB]

Yeah it's pretty normal, dating is honestly hard... the pool is way too big to be fishing in it you know

[KatieSims24]

I can only date men with a learning disability. It is bigger but so far I'm keeping finding guys that did put me in the friend zone on app called hiki. I rejected guys that are too tall and rejected guys are outside of my age range. Just been texting one then on Facebook that met off a dating app called chat & date. Some brand of bad. My mum wants me to use disabled dating but I feel too uncomfortable. I'm OK with some dating apps.

[melanieeeB]

Why can you just date guys with a learning disability? But yeah that way your pool is even bigger to fish in

[KatieSims24]

It's even more immature in some age groups of some men. It's because I got a learning disability. My mum is one that made the rules or I can't even date or be in a relationship unless with a learning disability.

[melanieeeB]

Why the fuck is your mom deciding who you can date or not?😳 You can for sure also date other men too! I'm sure there are men who wouldn't mind a girlfriend with a learning disability

[melanieeeB]

This is YOUR life and not your mothers. You're old enough to make your own decisions, without your mother. She needs to get her own life smh

[KatieSims24]

That's what I can't even do. My mum is very much a stubborn person. That I already tried to talk but still blow up with rape and abuse. That type of stuff as a way of not being good with making my own decision from my previous mainstream college. It was always loss for me.

[melanieeeB]

Damn I'm really sorry for you! She sounds like mother gothel if you ask me. I hope you can at least move out soon and get the hell away and get your own life, you ain't 15 anymore.

And sure rape and abuse can happen, I can't say it's never going to happen to you but I can for sure say it doesn't matter if you date a guy with a learning disability or someone who doesn't have that... you should rather look out and don't date people like your mom.
Or don't date people who are manipulative and disrespectful! But a person with a learning disability could definitely also be manipulative or take advantage of you. You never truly know in the beginning. Being self-strong, confident, saying no and setting boundaries and being able to leave if needed is important to not get taken advantage off in life! And yes you can get used by family.

[KatieSims24]

I look like a 14-year-old. So I get creeps on me hitting on me most type on disabled dating sites. Yet my mother will not change her mind about who I can date. So far, most of them have been typed verbally toxic and got cyberbullied by more than one girl. I'm not interested in guys that are outside of my age range or immature men's child that I'm not interested in again with disabled dating. Hiki guys rejected me for becoming a friend zone. That I'm not interested in. Just looking for one thing and still hasn't even gotten anywhere close.

[Ligerzzero]

Welcome to what men deal with all the time. It makes me laugh when they half to deal with the same crap men do, but you not having to go out of your way trying to ask a man out.

[es20490446e]

The better a guy is the less it sees the value of texting random women.

Because in real life many women want to be with them, and the guy can see for real what kind of girl he is getting.

[KatieSims24]

I can't get anywhere with real life dating already shit men there. I live medium to A big town. That is full of big ego and loud ass men. That I was never going to be interested. Also, real life men do not even approach part of the bad apple that I will reject. I also reject tall men since I was already starting to. Dislike them.

[es20490446e]

Texting men are just those men in disguise.

[KatieSims24]

I see men also in a disquiet in real life too. so again there is no more real men. Just lof of fake men. Then

[justFriend]

Do you want social media friendship?

[KatieSims24]

Why does that matter.

[justFriend]

It doesn't matter :) the important thing is do you want to be friends with me

[KatieSims24]

What does being friends. Is no go for straight men.

[justFriend]

do you mean like a lover?

[KatieSims24]

Yes but not on here.

[justFriend]

i understand okey :)

[dinojames22]

What have you been texting about

[KatieSims24]

Buses, birthdays, volunteering and asking about days and jobs.

[dinojames22]

Try more personal topics (not xxx) but find more common ground

[KatieSims24]

I already tried that with some men but it turned into a sexual question.

[dinojames22]

Sad.

[KatieSims24]

There is nothing else or just restarting. Real life dating has not been very unlucky there, too. I did try to approach some men and some men did reject them. I rejected my ex boyfriend for one try to ask me out on the instrument and said no cheater. Another ex boyfriend tried to add me on Facebook and rejected his friend's request. I'm only texting the man on Facebook.

[dinojames22]

Unfortunately the world is full of fakes

[In_Trance]

Keep at it

[KatieSims24]

Kept what.