Tired of focusing on myself. How to get a boyfriend or at least make male friends?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never had a boyfriend, been kissed, been on a date. I’ve focused on myself my whole life and I’m sick of waiting. can't just go up to guys either since no matter where I seem to go there are none my age anyway (don’t ask me how because I wish I knew) I have no male friends or talk to any guys. I have rejected maybe 3 guys but only because they had girlfriends, were pushy/mean, or emotionally immature (lying, changing stories) What can I do?

rant (no need to read answer the reasonable question and essentially info is above): I just got ghosted by the guy I liked which wouldn’t be a big deal if I literally had any guys who liked me or any chance of talking to other dudes. It’s the worst feeling because all my friend s have had boyfriends or have a ton of guy friends who undoubted have a crush on them. It feels like shit because I’m pretty and smart and have hobbies and a ton of girl friends but in the guy department I don’t have shit. And whenever I ask my girl friends to set me up with someone they always say they don’t know anyone while having 500 billion guys added on snap and making me feel bad about not having anyone like fuck you too honestly since you just wanna make me feel like shit but not help

[SocialEngineering]

Take your time, don't just jump into it. Test men, get to know them, their friends, etc. Talk to multiple people at the same time.

Remember just because you go on a date doesn't mean that you're obligated to sleep with them. Whatever you do at the end of the day should be your choice. Make sure that if you do sleep with someone you won't regret it later. If you feel iffy about it, reject it up front.

Testing men is something women do often to make sure he's not just out for a booty call. I recommend asking around current social circles and meeting guys that know friends of yours like their siblings, friends, and cousins, etc.

Church, social groups, clubs, neighbors, educational institutions, I dont recommend dating co workers.

[Middleman]

You’ll be starting college soon? Well I think you’ll be fine because that’s usually where a lot of people do usually start dating or find potential partners. They’ll be of similar age to you and share similar interests so shouldn’t be a problem finding a match.

[abc3643]

Let's start here... Please answer these three questions:
1. Where do you live? The more specific you answer this, the better.
2. What do you do for a living at the moment?
3. What are your hobbies?

[abc3643]

If you want to reply in a private message, this is fine by me.

[Asker]

I’m in college. i live in Virginia. I like to cook, sing, paint, garden, write, dance, and I play soccer.

[abc3643]

Are there not coed clubs at your college for your hobbies?

[BarryLiverstone]

If you are in college then making friends with guys in your classes or in your dorm would be the best solution. Have you been to many parties?

[Asker]

I start college in a couple weeks. I went to a parties in high school but most of them were amongst my female friends and the only guys there were their boyfriends and such

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok then get ready to start having guy friends. That will happen in college.

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe try dating site take things slow

[Anonymous]

Let's talk. I'm serious

[anewme]

Stop masterbating so much girl