What is the reason I continue to struggle to find a new boyfriend?

[TheSimFans]

In my experience with online dating, I received tons of likes on a dating app called Badoo and other dating sites/apps. It is been okay so far but after some guys did something stupid i thought he was rating the fish and i don't do rate men the second message that i sent after some guys did something stupid, one said rate my dick and I said no and blocked him after the last message. One guy, I think he was 34 and the other, 33. These guys kept asking me for pictures and asking me out before we even met up, so I sent them both last saying I wasn't interested. i did these two men since i didn't want them since I did kept saying no but still did the same thing and didn't seem to listen to me at all when i said no. I also went out in rl and events and still can't find any guys that i'm attracted to. It has been my experience that the guys that I have been attracted to are gamers, honest, nerds, respectful, open-minded, and know right from wrong. My mom set a rule saying I could only date men with moderate learning disabilities. Having seen a guy be taken by one woman and attracted to another, I'm not attracted to women. Why am I still struggling to find a new boyfriend?

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I'm looking for real answer that not giving the blame on me

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I got a learning disabilities and I'm looking for real helpful advices that do not put my own fault is not helpful at all. please read the detail and this update i'm not here to repeat me . thanks you. please

[Lynx122]

Well I'm autistic and it took me forever to find a girlfriend. It's not easy. You have to try and work on yourself during the time when you're not having any luck so that when you do find someone you're ready to actually take advantage of the situation. What I mean is do therapy deal with your trauma and other issues you may have etc. Also try and be as independent as you can be. Know how to deal with the small and big problems in life like cooking, doing dishes, financial things, paperwork, etc. And the things you can't do know where you can get help for it. I don't see why your mother should control your dating life like this though, it's weird.

[TheSimFans]

i have been two type of therapy one them i got banned from and one from NHS therapist and kinda help for not the dating problem or my issue than still have with my mum

[Lynx122]

Hmm well I wish you all the best. Keep going to therapy and I hope you can find someone. In the end it also matters how much love you can give to your partner. If you make them feel loved they will see you as special because it is kind of rare in todays world to be honest. But you also have to make sure you don't get taken advantage of by a bad person who doesn't love you back.

[TheSimFans]

I can't even to therapy anymore since is helpful for me anymore and i have get on the waiting list again. only the nhs therapies are the only once's at the moment. only one at one college was bit better with therapy but i don't to go any colleges anymore.

[Lynx122]

Oh ok that's sad I think you should have someone to talk to so maybe you can try again to find some therapy :). If it's NHS or somewhere else.

[TheSimFans]

that also will be impossible, i can't travel , can't go outside of country of uk.

[peterrezeeek]

they're probably virgins and they r looking for free chance to try sexual things...
their community consider it as a big deal and a sin...
do u wanna be friends?
dm me?

[peterrezeeek]

ty for the mho 😍