Well what if I tried that and failed?
Don't give up so easily. And maybe be willing to give guys a chance even if they aren't quite as attractive (looks or personality) as you would prefer - a lot of guys really just need some female attention/help to build their confidence.
Haha actually it's other way around. I get turned down most of the time haha.
Whats so bad with long distance or online relationships?
The point of a relationship is to spend time together. You can't do that without physically being nearby. Most people have to learn that lesson the hard way, though.
But you dont have to physically spend time together to spend time together. Me and my long distance boyfriend spend time together through playing video games and watching movies together. I dont see why you have to be together physically.
As I said, most people have to learn the hard way...
Yes I know, but I want to understand why not spending time physically is bad. If there is no reason why its bad then maybe its not as bad as you think
Very simply, it's not likely to last. Someone will get lonely or bored or busy, and because they get very little of substance from a LD relationship, they will not be able to maintain the effort to continue to make it a priority. And the other person feels hurt.And that assumes that no one ends up cheating, though that is also common.
what do you mean? it's not about my age
Perhaps Logorithim means that as we get older, we tend to get more set in our ways and, therefore, less able to change to accommodate someone else in our life?
I'm focused on my studies too.
So? How does that change anything I said?
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men play hard to get and they like it when I chase after them
To chase and be chased is all part of the fun. Keep that groove going. ;)
I want them to chase after me:(
I hear you. Maybe you have to change your game a bit? Since I don't know what you do, I'm just punting here. Perhaps you're doing too much? Show some interest but don't chase them as much. If you're doing all of the chasing then guys can just sit back and enjoy the show.
Plus more people can't trust their selves nowadays, or they're insecure about one thing at least. It puts a stop on most activities.
@Graciegirl61 good assessment! how many boyfriend u had?
Like 3, I'm young, I'm not too big in that department. 😂
@Graciegirl61 u seem to know what ur talking about tho! do u like having a bf? u single rn?
I get engaged in topics like this hah, but I'm over having a boyfriend for a while as I'd rather just stay single until I get to the age where I really start bothering hahah.
@Graciegirl61 what age do u think that will be lol? can i pm u?
You can PM me, I'll be happy to chat aslong as it's in bounds of appropriateness and really I dont know, I'll have to see.
@Graciegirl61 thanks! can u follow back bc i can't pm u or u can pm first
you look very innocent
Do I? Oh well. Pm me? 😂😂
you are too young for me ;)
I'm literally turning 17 in a week
you look german by the way, are you german
hmm u can be right
it's easy for you. not me.
Why do you say that?
@imyourhost are u looking for a boyfriend rn? what kinda guys u into?
True damn words. Not afraid more like annoyed. Who wants to deal with all that noise
you are very horny aren't you? message me baby
please leave your mom's house and let me be your mommy
Lol 😂 you ain't old enuf to be my mommy
your sugar mommy* I'm 18 by the way
Lol now we’re talkin haahahahah
no it's not hard to find girlfriend 😂 all just guys friendzone me
Its very hard 😅Thats weird, its usually the woman who rejects the guy
thats not accurate
Its accurate 99% of the timeMen usually have lower standards than women. Men usually find more women attractive than vice versa
that's not accurate
So it is hard for you to find even a guy who can be your boyfriend?
Can you be little more specific? You find hard to talking to guys? And i am assuming you look beautiful
I'm shy, yes:(
Oh. So shyness is the issue. I believe you need to get more open with guys. In starting if you find it difficult then start chatting online with guys or maybe flirt with them. That’s how you will learn how to talk or initiate a conversation with a guy offline.
and you'll share it with me
Like girls don't do that with guys they see in movies
Not really😂 it's not rlly given that much attention either🤷🏾 guys aren't forced to look a certain way most of the time. I've been some of the craziest lookong dudes have gfs.
hmm what men want
Well you're from Azerbaijan, not the West so I'd imagine things are REALLY different over there. The United States at this point is pretty anti-male.
well it's the opposite here. Femminism haven't reached our lands XD
Good, just get a guy to approach you.
I'm curious about Azerbaijan though, could you message me?
it would be better if you messaged me since I'm 1xper
You would need to follow me in order for me to message you.
I don't think so
It definitely has
well, we don't have feminism's influence in my country but we still have similar problems as western "feminist" countries.
What is your country?
All european people I met online were bad at geography. To clarify: it's in caucasus.
I have a Chechen friend... And I'm not that bad at Geography
Chechens are the best! You are lucky to have him/her.
Chechens are alright... My favourite muslims, that's for sure... They don't cause as much problems...
what about bosniaks and albanians? They are great
I like Bosnians better... But Albanians are coolWe have an apartment there, so we go there a lot (me not so much)...
thousands of bosnians were massacred in the year you were born, more than 25.000 bosnian women got raped but you europeans were silent. You have no right to hate Alija Izetbegovich, he was radical islamist but he saved bosnians.
Who do you think you're talking to?I love all Europeans... Muslim or not...
you two-faced scum
What is up with you? 🤨
First world European countries almost supported the Srebrenica Massacre.
You're talking of governments...
yeah, governments that you voted for... but it's not so suprising since the people who voted for hitler was also you.
Hahaha... Hitler was a friend of Muslims...
My Chechen friend is glad to know that his ancestors went to Germany to fight russians...
no, he wasn't.
He indeed was... He also had a bunch of Chinese nationalist officers in his army...The nazis were antisemitic, not fully "racist" as in wanting to kill every race of people or whatever you've been told. Lol
the arabs are also semitic.
I'm specifically talking about the Jews, and not the other semites...
Actuary I'd say turks ( at least till erdogan ) are the best Muslims ( or at least the least bad ) . They don't impose their religion, are tolerant , nice and hospitable
@up_64 Thank you. Did you know that it was banned to wear hijab in turkey before Erdogan? So many Azerbaijani people support him but I don't like him. He is not even Turkish, he is a Georgian and his wife is Arab. Turkey needs an atheist turkish president
I didn't. I just remember going there in 2014 and feeling rather at ease with the lack of religion
it's easy to you. not me!!
the culture of my cpuntry is different so it wouldn't work out
Of course, If I were dressed like you I would have a lot of guys after me too
What does that mean?
I think she means that you are not appropriate for your age so guys will want you because of your revealing clothes
And? Nothing wrong with showing my body?
I don't dress like that anymore because my parents got after me when they found out I got dress coded and cuz pedophiles used to message me all the time on Instagram
My mom hits me and says in dump but she just jealous i have guys that want me and she don't
yes you do I know you do it is all over the internet nothing new under the sunanother stuck up woman
it would be fine if he was alive and breathing
There's me then, haha ^^
What about dead in the inside? Im askin for a friend
@JoseJr Pm me;)
@Unit1 are you breathing?
No hablo ingles, nomas español
I am breathing right now. :>
@Unit1 im wet here we go
It's sad. I find it difficult to socialize.
My friends and my acquaintances say that it's hard to find someone all the time
@Lilgirlyyy uh at your age the only thing I tried to find was porn on the internet
Dude you pervert she’s 17 years old !!
@Bromance_guy I'm actually 18
You’re bio says otherwise “17” 👀🚓🚨
@Bromance_guy haha fbi open up
In some countries you get married at 13!!
but I can not find bf's on social media either
Same here. Try actually socializing outside of the internet & go to a place of people of you’re same age group to hangout & make friends.
the culture of my country is different so it wouldn't work
You keep saying the culture of your country is different and it wouldn't work. There has to be some means of young men and women to be able to socialize in your country. Whatever that IS, find it and intereact with young men. At school, at church. Somewhere.