In my personal experience, most girls want the perfect guy and set the bar so high that everyone they meet isn't good enough. Even if someone seems perfect they have this feeling like it's too good to be true and that often creates trust issues.
thousands of bosnians were massacred in the year you were born, more than 25.000 bosnian women got raped but you europeans were silent. You have no right to hate Alija Izetbegovich, he was radical islamist but he saved bosnians.
Actuary I'd say turks ( at least till erdogan ) are the best Muslims ( or at least the least bad ) . They don't impose their religion, are tolerant , nice and hospitable
@up_64 Thank you. Did you know that it was banned to wear hijab in turkey before Erdogan? So many Azerbaijani people support him but I don't like him. He is not even Turkish, he is a Georgian and his wife is Arab. Turkey needs an atheist turkish president
Was not hard for me. You have to look at the right places like parks, Cafés or Restaurants, concerts, amusement parks or Shows. Generally places you can find guys that have similar interests as you.
Oh. So shyness is the issue. I believe you need to get more open with guys. In starting if you find it difficult then start chatting online with guys or maybe flirt with them. That’s how you will learn how to talk or initiate a conversation with a guy offline.
I don't dress like that anymore because my parents got after me when they found out I got dress coded and cuz pedophiles used to message me all the time on Instagram
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In my personal experience, most girls want the perfect guy and set the bar so high that everyone they meet isn't good enough. Even if someone seems perfect they have this feeling like it's too good to be true and that often creates trust issues.
Because feminism has ruined the confidence of most men to approach women...
I don't think so
It definitely has
well, we don't have feminism's influence in my country but we still have similar problems as western "feminist" countries.
What is your country?
Azerbaijan
All european people I met online were bad at geography. To clarify: it's in caucasus.
I know...
I have a Chechen friend... And I'm not that bad at Geography
Chechens are the best! You are lucky to have him/her.
Chechens are alright... My favourite muslims, that's for sure... They don't cause as much problems...
what about bosniaks and albanians? They are great
I like Bosnians better... But Albanians are cool
We have an apartment there, so we go there a lot (me not so much)...
thousands of bosnians were massacred in the year you were born, more than 25.000 bosnian women got raped but you europeans were silent. You have no right to hate Alija Izetbegovich, he was radical islamist but he saved bosnians.
Who do you think you're talking to?
I love all Europeans... Muslim or not...
you two-faced scum
What is up with you? 🤨
First world European countries almost supported the Srebrenica Massacre.
You're talking of governments...
yeah, governments that you voted for... but it's not so suprising since the people who voted for hitler was also you.
Hahaha... Hitler was a friend of Muslims...
My Chechen friend is glad to know that his ancestors went to Germany to fight russians...
no, he wasn't.
He indeed was... He also had a bunch of Chinese nationalist officers in his army...
The nazis were antisemitic, not fully "racist" as in wanting to kill every race of people or whatever you've been told. Lol
the arabs are also semitic.
I'm specifically talking about the Jews, and not the other semites...
Actuary I'd say turks ( at least till erdogan ) are the best Muslims ( or at least the least bad ) . They don't impose their religion, are tolerant , nice and hospitable
@up_64 Thank you. Did you know that it was banned to wear hijab in turkey before Erdogan? So many Azerbaijani people support him but I don't like him. He is not even Turkish, he is a Georgian and his wife is Arab. Turkey needs an atheist turkish president
I didn't. I just remember going there in 2014 and feeling rather at ease with the lack of religion
your 17 how can it be hard... if you think its hard now you screwed.
Lol its not🙈
Tbh its easy.
Maybee need to build confidence and tell them what you want
it's easy to you. not me!!
Same here it's hard to get a girlfriend haha I don't know just put yourself out there and be social you'll find someone
the culture of my cpuntry is different so it wouldn't work out
Was not hard for me. You have to look at the right places like parks, Cafés or Restaurants, concerts, amusement parks or Shows. Generally places you can find guys that have similar interests as you.
I find it hard to believe that a young woman find it hard to find a boyfriend 🤔
Its hard to find a girlfirend though 😂
no it's not hard to find girlfriend 😂
all just guys friendzone me
Its very hard 😅
Thats weird, its usually the woman who rejects the guy
thats not accurate
Its accurate 99% of the time
Men usually have lower standards than women. Men usually find more women attractive than vice versa
To be precise it’s hard to find a good boyfriend. But if you want to settle for any kind of guy you can get that very easily
that's not accurate
So it is hard for you to find even a guy who can be your boyfriend?
yes:/
Can you be little more specific? You find hard to talking to guys? And i am assuming you look beautiful
I'm shy, yes:(
Oh. So shyness is the issue. I believe you need to get more open with guys. In starting if you find it difficult then start chatting online with guys or maybe flirt with them. That’s how you will learn how to talk or initiate a conversation with a guy offline.
SOME not all, act really picky and have high standards. Remember though, you’ll find the one and never settle for less.
I got no idea.. I'll just eat my food over there by the corner.
and you'll share it with me
Coz may be you are too much involving at wrong time...
I don't find it hard i have a boyfriend now and lik3 200 other guy message me wanting to my bfs
Of course, If I were dressed like you I would have a lot of guys after me too
What does that mean?
I think she means that you are not appropriate for your age so guys will want you because of your revealing clothes
*dressing appropriate
And? Nothing wrong with showing my body?
I don't dress like that anymore because my parents got after me when they found out I got dress coded and cuz pedophiles used to message me all the time on Instagram
My mom hits me and says in dump but she just jealous i have guys that want me and she don't
That picture is half the problem. Don't go looking for a boyfriend online
You're 17 lol... I think you'll be fine. Just enjoy life and don't worry. All will work out.
Because its hard to find a girlfriend... It goes both ways hahah
It's not hard to find one. Its hard to find a good one.
I ask the same thing for girls. But then I find the answer easily: Girls are into jerks.
Because you're not putting yourself out there. Can't expect to find a partner if you're not doing anything about it.
Social media. People don't go out and meet or hangout anymore. It's become a world of vanity for young adults and teens.
Because there’s too many women chasing too small a group of men. There’s literally not enough to go around.