Would you date someone inexperienced, drama-free, but a man child?

[Anonymous]

It's me. lol
I am now getting desperate...
But it's life and play of the luck with some quality which I can't have.

[HollyK21]

Inexperienced is one thing, but a man child? Sorry but in what world do you think that would be attractive to any woman?

[Asker]

True

[Asker]

But not all women are equal right, may be some women like someone who plays with their hair.

[Asker]

Also it's just stupid question my inner child and my ego wanted to see answered to.

[Asker]

My ego is going wild like why should you (as a guy) give her some much attention, products, gifts, chocolate, and get this type of answer.
And my inner child is like
So that at the end of the day you can call her mommy!!😂😂😂

[HollyK21]

It’s true, not all women are the same. However, it would likely be a very small margin of women. Sort of like people with very specific kinks/fetishes, depending on what those interests are, they’re going to have a hard time finding someone who they’re both attracted to and shares interest in those things. I’d say similarly for a woman being interested in a man child, it’d be hard for you to come across one.

[HollyK21]

Yeah like I don't know how many women are out there who wants a man that’s privy to throwing temper tantrums at some capacity and calling her mommy when it’s happening lol. Like that gives me the ick.

[Asker]

Yaa true.
One thing give me an ick which most women do.

Denying the effort which we put in and then label it and men in a guilt trip.
But ya everyone is different.
And there are very few people are into something like that.
Being mature, strong or confident is just a mask many of us have to put on to attract someone and those who do it are mostly tried at the end day to carry that burden.

[HollyK21]

I’d say your ideology surrounding women and the efforts in which you feel we do or don’t deny from men would be an entirely separate discussion.

As for being for being mature, strong confident, I feel like these are masks many people have to put on just to function in day to day society as opposed to trying to attract a partner. There’s plenty of people who don’t step out of their house thinking “I’m gonna put on my best confident face today so I can attract a man/woman”. Instead it’s more a blanket of protection — showing strength and confidence towards, let’s say, coworkers who’d otherwise walk all over you. Or being mature when you’re in a professional setting. Hell, for many of us maturity isn’t a setting we have to switch on and off in the first place but again, everyone is different.

For example with myself, if I encounter a man-child I’m going to just assume he’s emotionally and/or socially stunted, and I say that respectfully, I’m just going by the literal definition of that phrase. I would assume he doesn’t know how to properly regulate or express his emotions and/or thoughts to either a woman or whoever is having to encounter his instances of displaying immaturity. Even if he were to think he was wearing a mask that displayed false confidence, maturity or strength, I think I’d see through the act.

[Asker]

In reality it don't matter how I behave, taking responsibility, and executing it perfectly. no matter how it should I have been just given the cold shoulder.
It made me strong but now I don't want to be the one who everyone complains about.
So the easiest way out was giving out commitment and just fulfilling it as fast as possible.
Just to get some much needed time with them.
And if they move the goal post more then 2 times I just give up cause that's just lock me to be something which I am.

So in place of everything being silly and a man child saves me from something constantly running after success where there is no end.
Me personally I was asked to be fatter, more silent, and responsible.
But being more responsible coated money more mental health, energy and endly she chose someone else who was just a play boy who said that he is using her to her face.
( Happened 2 times with 2 different girls)
Which changed my view that I should be like the guys.
But breaking someone questions my morals. So I chose to be just be honest, aware and dumb.

[Abbycado]

You can be a man child and that doesn’t count as drama?

[Asker]

Oh I don't make sounds,
I don't make someone angry, or fight for unknown reasons.
I just wanna play with.
Being too clingy..
Not needy just clingy.
Sure it might make someone angry but not any immature or impulsive decisions.
Also this personality will be only indoors.
Cause I am ashamed to be like that...

[Nikki1989]

Nobody wants a man-child.

[Zionne]

we both the same