Should I remove a guy who flirted in my DMs but posts stories with another girl?

[Anonymous]

If somebody slid in my dms, showed a lot of interest to hang out (once back in town) and then post a story with another girl should you remove them? We never had met yet anyway so it is not a big deal but it was still a bit weird tbh. Maybe they were never single and accidentally forgot that I would see.

In the pic he has his arm around her and she kind of rests her head on him. The caption is a heart only. Do i just remove this guy or not do anything to show I’m the bigger person? I feel like giving any kind of reaction would feed their ego

[CriminallyInsane]

Just leave it. All the block/unblock/unfriend blah blah blah is so immature. If he asks to hang out, I would just make a sarcastic comment about the other girl and see how he reacts

[Asker]

Actually yeah, I was in the same mindset. I actually liked one of his other stories after (non-romantic ones) just for the sake of showing I’m mature. he used to text me friendly back when i was still dating his friend so he might be manifesting that open relationship thing…

[Master_Debator]

What kind of guy slides in women's DMs? I mean seriously... if that type is your type, you do you.

What you suspect is probably all true. A lot of guys out their base their manliness on the conquests of women... including me. But don't slide into my DMs... we know what kind of girls do that.

[Hunter-40m]

Removing hım will be better for you because in a long term you will be bothered for sure

[McLlovin]

He’s a player. He is showing you what he looks like when your back is turned.

[Staximus]

I don’t know why you are wasting any more time worrying about some player, be rid of him

[Mariogirl09]

He wants you jealous he's playing games

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

No he's not. He's being transparent as fuck. If she's affected by it, that's on her. She should do something about it.

[Asker]

@Ariesman81Nshiiit what do you mean? I don’t chase people. I’m just seeking out opinions because it is weird

[Asker]

@mariogirl09 I don't know but the girl kind of looks eh… if he wants to be serious with her good for them lol

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

@asker

Apparently neither does he

[queenofcardio]

If you want, I wouldn't react at all

[MrChinaski]

Be happy that he is happy. It's cleansing.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Let her feed it then

[RedInnocent69]

No. Grow up. You’re not actually seeing him

[Asker]

Here again goes the male chauvinist

[RedInnocent69]

Am not. But you aren’t going out with him. Why would you question who takes pics with?

[Asker]

Because he made himself look single so he is being dishonest

[RedInnocent69]

Maybe he is. Maybe he’s a FB. Maybe he’s friendly. A lot of guys have a lot of photos with a lot of girls. Maybe you should ask him 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I thought of the possibility however he put a heart as well …. Unless it is a really close friend or something sounds a bit off… 2 weeks ago he sent me a selfie how would he find her so fast tf or he is a serial dater

[RedInnocent69]

Girls are everywhere…

[Anonymous]

People haven't "slid into DMs" since 2007.

[LC75LC71]

You are lost..

[WhitneySnow]

Remove him

[Asker]

Will do when i get back on insta for sure

[Zionne]

yes you should

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely