Guys, Messaging and deleting messages to a girl he slept with before me, should I be worried or maybe just deletes knowing I'd be upset?

[Anonymous]

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but you definitely should just act like it didn't happen

[dudeinohio]

You should be worried. It's inappropriate to communicate with exes when you are in a relationship.

[Asker]

This is how I feel too, but he doesn't burn bridges (his words) and likes to stay friends. But why delete messages if nothing to hide, but he may just be saving me feeling insecure/having an argument.

[dudeinohio]

If he deleted messages, he's definitely sending something inappropriate.

[Avicenna]

That is definitely something to be worried about

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him about it

[Asker]

He doesn't know I know as he's been angry about me going through his phone before. I saw a message from her a couple weeks ago but noticed that message had been deleted and I'm unsure whether there has been more to the convo that I don't know about, he hadn't deleted that message earlier but has since been deleted which is why I think there is more to it if suddenly deleted

[Iron_Man]

Well, this has to be resolved you have to talk

[Asker]

How do I bring it up when he's been mad at me in the past for checking his phone.

[Iron_Man]

Just talk from the heart tell him your true feelings don’t hide. Thanks.

[Iron_Man]

Hide things