Guy will text me then stop then start again. Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

This guy that I’ve been crushing on (and I think he likes me too, I’m definitely sure he is attracted to me) will text me sometimes with updates on his life, work. He even sends me pictures from his office and shares products he’s working on with me. Conversation is going well, then he’ll suddenly cut it short and not text for 2-4 weeks. Then he’ll pick up right where he left off. I do text him as well, and the same issue: sometimes he’ll be every enthusiastically texting or sometimes he’s short (but still polite).
Should I be concerned?

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I had asked him if I get to see him before he graduates and he said that he was down to get coffee or something. Three weeks later, he kept teasing me with information about his job, saying something about it, then withholding more info. He finally said that he could explain it better in person, so I asked when I get to see him so he can explain it and he said after Easter. We still talked a bit, but he never mentioned hanging out and he already graduated.

[random_girl95]

I think that if you want to keep in touch with this person you need to either call or meet up. Seems like texting doesn't work for you.

[Asker]

I had asked him if I get to see him before he graduates and he said that he was down to get coffee or something. Three weeks later, he kept teasing me with information about his job, saying something about it, then withholding more info. He finally said that he could explain it better in person, so I asked when I get to see him so he can explain it and he said after Easter. We still talked a bit, but he never mentioned hanging out and he already graduated. So yeah, he might just be stringing me along...

[random_girl95]

Forget about him then. Clearly he wasn't interested in seeing you in person, and when you talked it was clearly out of his boredom. Don't worry though, you will find better people, I am sure!

[Asker]

So, even if I would text him for something small (say homework), not expecting a conversation, he would ask me how I've been or how may day is. Is that still just because he is bored?

[random_girl95]

You can't be sure but it's probable yes.

[IsoUser]

I couldn't agree with you more. Why not meet him for breakfast or lunch and take things slowly

[IsoUser]

In other words she means remain in touch short of stalking him or her. Anything suggestion of otherwise call police because sounds like this guy is a stalker.

[Asker]

Even though he never reached out after? And I suggested twice? (Update)

[Asker]

@IsoUser Even though he never reached out after? And I suggested twice? (Update)

Sorry meant to reply to you.

[IsoUser]

Just meet in a very public place I don't mean to scare you but you be safe is all I'm asking and take a friend with you.

[Asker]

@IsoUser Okay. Why do you say he sounds like a stalker?

[Wise4myage]

I say ask him out on a date or ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. If he feels the same way you do, then he should say yes.

[Asker]

I had asked him if I get to see him before he graduates and he said that he was down to get coffee or something. Three weeks later, he kept teasing me with information about his job, saying something about it, then withholding more info. He finally said that he could explain it better in person, so I asked when I get to see him so he can explain it and he said after Easter. We still talked a bit, but he never mentioned hanging out and he already graduated. So yeah, he might just be stringing me along...

[IsoUser]

Two Words " Restraining Warrant " how much more clearly can you let the man know!

[Asker]

What?