Is it bad that I sent dm to a guy who was lurking on my stories?

[Anonymous]

I noticed a cute guy had viewef my instagram stories couple times without following. I was kinda annoyed that he passively viewed them.

I then decided to send him ” stop lurking on my page 😄”. So far he hasn’t replied to me lol

[avery58]

I don't know.. I have a feeling you meant it in a joking manner, but he might have taken it as too aggressive

[Asker]

Why would he lurk in my stories though?

[avery58]

He found them or more likely you interesting

[avery58]

It doesn't necessarily mean he had a crush but yeah he found you interesting

[Asker]

He hasn’t even opened my message lol

[Asker]

Isn’t that disrespectful

[Anonymous]

Don't you post stories for people to view them?

"I was kinda annoyed he passively viewed them" why? He might just like looking at you, doesn't mean he likes you.

[Asker]

Yeah but I want new to people to follow me and not just view my stuff.
I hoped that my text would got him to converse etc instead he’s just been silent. Also why lurk if he’s not interested?

[Opinion Owner]

He might have taken your message as you being brat.

And people lurk because they just think you're attractive, it doesn't mean they like you on a deeper level. It just means he thinks you're nice to look at. But he might liked you, I don't know.

[Asker]

We actually used to follow each other. Last year I started to follow him after I noticed he viewef my story. Then I messaged him and we had a short conversation. After that he didn’t continue our conversation. Then I removed him from my followings.
A year later he’s still viewing my stuff from time to time

[AviatorTom]

Why does that annoy you? Don't you post stories so people can read them?

[spartan55]

Why would that annoy you? Why would he respond to your rude message?

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

Maybe he took you seriously? lol

[Asker]

Seriously in what way?

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

In the serious way. You told him to stop lurking on your page, so he stopped lurking on your page and is leaving you alone.

[Asker]

Why would he lurk in my stories though?

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

That's something only he can answer.

[Wise4myage]

You’ve probably said enough.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Wise4myage]

He got busted lurking

[Asker]

I hoped that it would got him to text me more etc instead he’s just been silent. Also why lurk if he’s not interested?

[Wise4myage]

He’s probably just be very shy. So consider approaching him.

[Asker]

After my text ” stop lurking on my page” he hasn’t replied lol

[spartan55]

@asker
Gee I wonder why?

[Luckycharms12]

whatever you want