Is it too late to live freely in my 30s after a traumatic 20s?

[Anonymous]

Can I be a carefree version of myself in my 30s like I was in my 20s?

The interesting part is I don't look any older.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yes, you could. In a way.

Perhaps not now, perhaps it's too early to have or feel that now, but the option may be there. It won't look like what you think, it will look different. I reasonably think this carefree option exists

[Staximus]

Your 20s were traumatic but you want to feel like you were in your 20s again? How does that make any sense? I’ve got news for you, it’s time to move on with your life

[Asker]

I hope you go through trauma so you know what it feels like.

[Staximus]

I’ve been through plenty, young rookie

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't look older. . . to yourself?

[Asker]

To everyone no one believes I'm over 30.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Yeah cause women become less attractive after they hit 30. I wasted most of my 20s from trauma so I can't imagine how bad that must be for a woman with a shorter biological clock.

[In_Trance]

Is this your way of saying you wanna fuck random guys without consequence?

[Asker]

Please respect women even though you clearly don't respect yourself.

No. It's my way of saying that years of my life were stolen from me and now I want to live carefree but don't know how to. What am I supposed to do pretend it all didn't happen?

[In_Trance]

Just because you've been hurt doesn't mean you need to be condescending. You're not above anyone else. You want resepct... you earn it

[Asker]

What hypocrisy lol someone give this guy an oscar.

You have the nerve to talk about respect after what you posted above?

I say the exact same thing to you: You want resepct... you earn it

[Tomislav7]

Nope ur best bet is to be a doormat for Jesus

[queenofcardio]

It's never to late. Be free !

[Asker]

But I'm older and not sure what to make of that.

[Caurav1997]

Yes my love you can 🥰

[majd90000]

Yes its fine

[Asker]

I see you're in your 30s. How was your 20s different than your 30s? Or is it similar

[majd90000]

No im 26, You can live as if you're in your twenties, but with some boundaries and priorities in your life. In other words, you can live freely, but with some limits. That's my advice.

[dudeinohio]

Sure