Guys, what makes you wanna stay and commit to a girl in the dating phase?

[bobalife]

Just curious due to our modern dating period.

[ohsheeT]

From day one if I'm with a person I've already made up my mind she's the one I want to be with no matter what.. .

And I hope she feels the same way because when you both know that. Then you can laugh about things and you don't have to think or worry about anything

That's who I am if we are walking in the mall. And there are 3 guys walking towards us

And they're just staring at the girl that I'm with to me I think that's funny because of course she's good looking but I don't have to think anything else about it because I'm not worried about it all guys are going to look and vice versa we're walking to the mall


and girls are heading towards us and they stare me up and down or they look in certain areas and I think it's funny it doesn't mean anything

but I see in so many relationships that people get upset when that happens

you can't get upset there's nothing to happen lol and when you know you have each other's back and your committed and stuff like that you can laugh about and you don't even think any other way about it

But if one or the other gets upset Because somebody was looking at them It's just not going to work Because That's when arguing starts it accusing

So when you are best friends when everything is great you know each other are you don't worry about nothing that's when relationships are fun

And for me that's what relationships are all about

When You Believe in Your Partner 100%, there's not too many things that can mess it up
But it has to go both ways

And I trust respect and believe in the person that I'm with until they give me a reason not to it's really that simple

When you go out with somebody that is very good looking that is very beautiful it's going to happen

And you have to accept it every girl that I've ever gone out with I know that they can handle themselves if something was to happen or something they didn't like happened and if they can't then they would come and get me that again just that bond that friendship that connection it's a beautiful thing

[jjp67]

understanding that she knows me and loves me is enough, but sometimes life’s just cruel

for example, my girlfriend and i are dating for a while now and i love her, but she have plans to travel around the world, live outside. plans that ill probably miss out.

we keep saying that we’ll find a way out, but deep inside we know that in the end we’ll have to follow distinct ways.

i'm trying to find a solution to this, but i see my future here as she saw hers in another country.

otherwise, if its possible, a guy will know if she’s the one and will commit with his heart

[Master_Debator]

Peace, and it adding nothing but positive things to my own life.

Where most of these girls are going wrong in my opinion... they can't turn off the slut faucet when they should, obsessed with attention, want to battle over any and everything, and bring the drama.

I don't know what dude's problems are... I don't fuck with dudes.

[Zack-Bann]

If she sees in me a person I would love to become and influences me to be that person appreciating the work I put into it.


I met someone like that a while back.


We were close. But fate had other plans for us.
So we didn’t end up together.

[ThaCuriousGuy007]

reassuring her that i won't walk out on her when times are tough, i'll be there through thick and thin, that i love her and she's the most important thing in my world, that she sits above everything else going on around me, that my time is devoted to her ad no others.

[Still-alive]

Can i genuinely see a future with her? Can i be completely comfortable being around her? Do we share common core values while respecting each others differences? Does she truly like the real me and not some fantasy version of me she conjured up in her head?

something along those lines.

[Still-alive]

thinking this a bit more since you said the 'dating phase' meaning we are getting serious but haven't completely committed yet then i would just say the first thing i said 'can i genuinely see a future with her'? is the only important question im asking myself then. the others would come later in the course of the relationship before allowing myself to fall deeply in love with her.

[YourExLover69]

If she is single, shows sign of interest, commitment, maturity, would be loyal, we have few things in common, no big red flags then she's my type and I'd commit with her even for permanent relationship and marriage

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Because she expresses ideas I deeply relate to, and because I see that she relates to me as well.

[AgentG111]

Honestly at this point its totally sexual.

For more of a dedicated type relationship, If we have good communication and we have interests that we share and our differences and interests can be shared with each other.

[genericname85]

It's not one thing. It's her characteristics. Like if I can have a decent life with her and still get to do what I love, then I don't see why I wouldn't wanna commit.

[exitseven]

It has been a long time since I was dating but I remember that most girls used to make me feel uncomfortable

[MrChinaski]

I don't date. I find good people and invest time learning more about them.

Dating sounds like all hell, to me, at least.

[NathanDavis]

of course... mutual interest

without that, I won't even consider the idea, lol

[MidnightRivers]

The chase, when i feel the chemistry and she's aligned with her goals but has time to for me and cmmits to me

[Alex-Snow]

• Good conversations, good personality, honesty a fun smile and tbh good sexual chemistry.

[Iron_Man]

Because we have a lot of things in common and she shares a lot of interest and I like her that’s why I would stay

[Anonymous]

Not that I date anymore but when I did I guess love and loyalty as well as the general avoidance of chaos

[Anonymous]

I never had a date, but if I ever had a chance with any of the girls I like, I would want to stay and commit to the girl I like. .

[msc545]

Usually it's bad judgment that causes this to happen.

[rapfan107]

If she's a good partner!! Brings the best out me, have good n fun conversations, caring , doesn't stress me out has a nice personality

[Godihateyou]

The aren't American, they are virgins, they are religious. They know abortion is murder

[Bklynbadboy12]

Her personality and sense of humor and how compatible we are

[Anonymous]

When she doesn't show her breasts in her profile pics.

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Deep conversations, good sex , and shared hobbies

[RHK36]

Accountability, communication and consistency.

[LiamJHayden]

She proves she is worthy of commitment.

[dudeinohio]

If she has all the qualities I'm looking for.

[Hanrej]

Matching personalities AND goals.

[hornyasfudge]

I Feel safe here :)

[Anonymous]

If the sex is good