Why do I never get any interest from guys in real life?

[Anonymous]

I meet male friends from online... and guys from dating apps. I get called attractive and many of them get love at first sight. But in real life, I barely ever get any attention from men. One other time, I had a boss at work who called me very beautiful but never proceeded any further.

[ohsheeT]

I think you will but first you have to experience the intense feeling of energy it will start with a look and then maybe a touch and once you feel it or them so both it will change your body chemistry and then you will feel it deep everywhere and you will want to change because you will want to experience that Full Throttle

[ZameerAnsari91]

Maybe they just don't find you their type girl, maybe you're really a shy girl,

[ZameerAnsari91]

Thanks for MHO

[WellBye]

Maybe you’re less attractive, or there’s something about your vibe that pushes them away. By the way don't pay attention to compliments from men online, most of them are thirsty enough to like even a boomer.

[Asker]

no. I can tell when a guy thinks im attractive. they truly are telling the truth

[Asker]

the man that I am with right now, he is in love with me, we are dating. And he thinks im super gorgeous

[WellBye]

You can't be super gorgeous and invisible at the same time but ok

[Asker]

beauty is in eye of the beholder

[Smart_Monk]

Hey if you are talking about me, i was 16 years old at the time when i looked up that educator witch and decided to rub one out while at it. I wouldn't say i was thirsty because i refused having a conversation with a teen girl interested in me in real life that day, because love is for sissies, not real men who are trying to become superheroes.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Damn if you're with someone you don't even get to fucking talk. You have no idea how much harder it is for men.

[Asker]

@Wodens_Apprentice

I be honest with you. It's hard for men because men never try to date within their own level

[Wodens_Apprentice]

That's actually the opposite of the truth.
Women always target men who they perceived as superior to themselves in every way because why find it attractive. He has to have a better career, wage, taller then her, stronger than her & take more responsibility then her for her to ever really find him attractive.
Men are willing to sleep with anyone as long as they're hot, and they will even lower that standard to be with a woman who's nice to them because that's how desperate they are. This is why there are lots of virgin men and not lots of virgin women. So the opposite is true.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Also why should I as a 6'4'' blonde, blue eyed, white, strong jawline & broad male settle for an ugly woman? Ugly people are usually spiteful. At least ugly women are still getting sex. If I'm struggling I dread to imagine how an ugly or short guy struggles.

[Asker]

@Wodens_Apprentice

If you are ugly, that's why those average looking girls don't want u. Go for another ugly girl

[Wodens_Apprentice]

I don't think being 6'4'', blonde, blue eyed, having a strong jawline and broad shoulders puts me in the ugly girl category. If even I can't make it how bad is it for unattractive men is my point.
I think women should be taken off the internet so they have less of a pool to choose from.

[Smart_Monk]

@Wodens_Apprentice why do men worry about shitty women. Or why women complain about shitty men. It's like worrying that poop stinks. It's a teenage thing to complain "there are no real (wo) men, why am i alone". It's when hormones in the body are more voluminous than brain matter. If you get together with someone just because of breeding hormones, then you'll break up as soon as the breeding hormones tell you "child made, now spread genes elsewhere".

If humans are so stupid that they need the cutting of internet to function, then they shouldn't breed at this point. If they care more about some fucked up "hypergamy" than about being a decent being, then they'll find a "chad" in real life sooner or later and cheat anyway.

And even if you put a leash on them and make ai watch for cheating behavior, if they agree to be reminded by ai "what you are about to do will be cheating.." would you want to live with someone that stupid/undevoted?

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@Smart_Monk You are a banker from Palestine. You are surrounded by traditional women & have a stable job in an unpleasant country. Why should I not just dismiss your tale on this, based on that?
Ofc you want white people to stop breeding because you're a Semitic devil.

[queenofcardio]

Maybe you don’t look approachable or friendly. Your demeanor could be off putting.

Some men don’t approach women , some don't chase

[Master_Debator]

Feminism has demanded men not to make moves or else they're creeps... so anyone that gives a shit about your female rights... just don't and now that's your job. I'm sure you'll meet someone that doesn't give a shit about feminism and will still want to fuck sooner or later.

[slatyb]

Where are you going to meet men? Most men won't hit on you at work, certainly not your boss. Even calling you beautiful is out of line between a manager and a subordinate. Nor are you likely to be hit on in the street. Find a group doing something you enjoy that also attracts men.

[Anonymous]

You do NOTHING to recieve it.

You're a woman. So what! There are 4 billion of you on this rock hurtling through space. In THAT respect, you are not special. You want attention? You need to GIVE IT. You don't want to do that? Then nothing is going to change.

I PROMISE YOU, the women who are getting attention ARE giving it. They may be subtle about it. But they are giving it. Guys have ego's to hun. It's not just about you.👍

[genericname85]

i mean the first thing that comes to mind that you probably aim too far up. i'm sure there's guys interested but you're probably ignoring them cause you're hoping to find someone hotter.

[Anonymous]

I seem to have the opposite problem. Women seem to find me attractive in person, but I barely get matches online.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you’re not as good looking as your pics. Or maybe guys online are just more desperate or more willing to overlook imperfections or both.

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe you have to make a move too and not waiting for everything to arrive at your feet 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Godihateyou]

Flirting with women is a great way to be accused of sexual harassment. Been this way for more than 20 years. This is why American men date over seas.

[jahaims]

Personality issue or you catfish online

[karlaatsd]

You might maybe you don't notice