So far I have only had two real boyfriends. One only lasted about a week before he moved away and the other was a compulsive liar. I may not be one of the most beautiful girls around but I consider myself at least attractive. I am not a bad person, I just seem a little shy, but there are girls that are not much prettier then me that have been in many relationships. Why don't guys ask me out?
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Here's the deal, physical attractiveness (looks, smell, voice) is the most important thing for a guy when it comes to who he is going to approach. Here's a scale I like to use among friends when rating girls based only on physical attractiveness:
5+ - Below average, but would have sex with.
6+ - Average, nice looking girls.
7+ - Attractive, pretty looking girls.
8+ - Very Attractive, model level girls.
9+ - Extremely Attractive, supermodel/celebrity level girls.
Surely, it changes from one guy to another, I would say the broadest general difference for one specific guy would be around the 1 point, but it's usually a lot less. That is, Joe might think Jenny is 6.6 while Danny thinks she's 7.6. In other words, beauty is in the eye of the beholder only to some extent - nobody could argue that a 9 level girl is amazingly attractive and deserves to be a model while nobody would argue that no guy in the world would have sex with a girl who's less than 4.
Now, here are a few important things to remember:
1) A guy would NEVER approach a girl he wouldn't have sex with, that is, it requires a 5+ girl to be approached.
2) After a certain level, I would say 6.5, looks don't really change much and other aspects such as character and personality begin to matter greatly.
3) Girls above a cetain level, around 7.5, look too good for most guys - so while they are attractive, they won't be approached as often because they seem too hard to get.
Generally that means, the girls who are approached most are between 6.5 to 7.5.
While this above is just a theory, after observation and research in the field, I think it's quite accurate and correct.
And why am I telling you this? Well, you're a girl, you know what makes guys attracted - make sure you rise above 6.5 - and by then you'll be relationship material to all but the choosiest guys around. That considering you have a great personality and character, and I am willing to bet you have. Excercise, healthy lifestyle, healthy nutrition, good hygiene, good perfume and some minor behaviour execrsises could boost your attractiveness to a desired level.
Being shy is not an unattractive trait in girls at all, it might make you less spotable, but it doesn't make you less attractive. So keep that in mind.
All in all, hope that helped.
You could message me if you have any questions or if you need something clarified.
Cheers and good luck.12
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