I’ve been told by many people that I’m beautiful, funny, smart, athletic, and most people are genuinely surprised when I tell them that I have never even been asked out by a guy. I’m currently in high school, so maybe it’s just my age, but it kinda sucks to see everyone around you get asked out to homecoming. It’s making me wonder, why don’t guys ever seem attracted to me?
I experience the same exact thing. Women always tell me how handsome, kind, sweet, and intelligent I am. I'm tall, I have a deep sexy voice etc. But nobody ever wants to go on a date with me. I'm 31 years old and that fact has not change. Hell even girls who reject me or friendzone me do so before telling me how great I am and how I'm gonna make someone very lucky some day.
I wish I had an answer for you but I don't but what I will say is he will come to you eventually. When people tell me "She'll come to you" it's not accurate. Women don't come to men, men have to come to them... and hope they say yes. Unfortunately for me though, it's invariably a no. I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 23 and I met her on here believe it or not.
Going back 54 years, I was in love with a gorgeous girl. She had long black hair and the most stunning, beautiful blue eyes. I didn't have the courage to approach her.
Perhaps guys think that a funny, smart, athletic beauty is out of their league. Or do you perhaps give off the wrong "don't approach me" signal. Guys of your age are actually not as brave as they may appear to be and are often scared of rejection. You may have to make the 1st move on a guy that drops his gaze every time you look towards him.
Good luck
I’m assuming your still in high school to start. It’s probably because the guys your age are intimidated (because they don’t wanna ask and be rejected. Guys are just as afraid of it as girls, really) or unsure how to approach you. You shouldn’t feel like you HAVE to hook up with someone, but it’s okay to just ask guys to hang out. It doesn’t even need to be a formal date, and honestly a lot of guys that age feel more comfortable with that kind of casual setting. As an adult, I’d say you should take advantage of school life to try mixing with different social groups and clubs. It’s good to broaden your social experiences while you can, no need to lock down on a romance right away.
I can't tell what you look like but I do know that some men are apprehensive about approaching very attractive women because they feel like the possibility of getting rejected is too great. I've always approached as a challenge and have found that many women who are generally considered beautiful tare often lonely because their beauty has scared off potential suitors. I'd love to see what you look like
For obvious reasons I can't comment on your body, but probably it's your personality. I'm guessing you're hard to approach or less out there so to speak.
They probably are- a lot of people never give you a clue that they find you attractive. Are you approaching guys?
You know when someone has a really ugly kid but they want to be nice so they say “ohhh they’re so cute!”
Sounds like that.
I don't know maybe they don’t think u are able to date someone I don't know
lmao I’m a junior hbu
Ok who told you you’re beautiful? Boys? Your female friends?
Maybe it's because you're so attractive and with a nice body that they all think you're already with someone else
can't say since you do not have a pic of you up to see why...
Because you look like a Law Suit in the making
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