I asked my crush if he likes me he replied "I don't know" should I move on?

[Anonymous]

Because I feel like that means no.
My crush and I are friends and I like him so I asked him if he likes me

[bowenw]

You can stay friends with him, but move on in finding someone for a serious relationship.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Spencer10]

I would move on. You asked a clear question and got a non answer.

[NathanDavis]

I did say the same to my friend, but that was back in high-school... we were teens, lol

first I said "I don't know..." and then I said "sorry, but I don't think I feel the same way"

and I kept saying I was unsure about it all...

and a couple of weeks later... we were a thing, and in love... and we had the three greatest years in high-school, together, lol

today, we've been close and great friends for 20 years now... definitely one of the most important people in my life, lmao

[genericname85]

i mean i wouldn't entirely lose hope just yet. yeah it's fair to assume that the chances are fairly slim. it could be that he was just trying not to hurt you by saying no. maybe ask him out on a date, see how he reacts.

[jazzy34]

Anything but a yes answer lets you know he's not interested. I'm sorry.

[beenherebefore]

I mean if he liked you he would've said Yes so I'd take that as a No and move on.

[Anonymous]

It probably does. His feelings my be complicated due to you starting as friends. Maybe give him a little time and then move on.

[slatyb]

For a romantic relationship? You should move on.

[Anonymous]

Did you say you like him?

[Asker]

I didn't lol but since he's not into me I think its time to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Suit yourself lol, everybody wins I guess.🤷‍♂️😆

[Asker]

If I tell him I like him would that change his mind? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well I would've assumed you already would have done that. I mean if you're this unsure how do you think he's supposed to feel? He cannot read your mind.
Do you have any idea how many women flirt with men ONLY for attention? They try to get men to ask them out then when he does she turns him down. Which is an awful thing to do.
I'm not saying if you tell him you like him it'll change ANYTHING. I'm simply saying you have not risked anything. And a woman who risks nothing is telling a man he's not worthy of a risk. And why would a guy want to date a woman who thinks so little of him.
Yeah, putting yourself out there sucks! And rejection sucks even more. But this is why I said "suit yourself" go ahead and walk away and wait for a guy you care enough to take a risk on. And he can get a woman who really wants to take a risk on him.👍

[karlaatsd]

Still be friends but still be looking

[oldman26]

Was he teasing