How can I find a girlfriend if I’m not attracted to anyone in my town?

[Anonymous]

I live in a town where I find the girls average looking and I don't wanna try to make a girl I don't really feel physically attracted to fall in love with me but I don't wanna stay alone either. I don't make and approaching girls that I find physically attracted. Do u have a solution?

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2 mo

I don't mind approaching. Like if an average girl approaches me, I don't mind

[Smart_Monk]

Maybe you should move, but not because the surrounding ones are "average". There's someone conventionally hot as fuck in every town.

Since i avoid ending up pump&dumping anyone, I'm really turned off physically by non-physical mismatches of personality. The looks vary wildly but people's subconscious is partially powered by geography, that's part of what some people call "personality". If that's the case for you, you dislike the subconscious of anyone in that town, that is the real reason to move. ㅤ

[daveed_D]

Honestly, I completely get where you’re coming from because I felt the exact same way about my own hometown for a while. Like, everyone knows everyone, and not gonna lie, nobody really sparked my interest at all. I mean, I actually come across on davidwygant while looking around for some advice on how to break out of that local bubble, and it got me thinking differently. Okay, so what I did was start expanding my radius on dating apps and literally just traveling to the next city over for weekend hangouts. It’s a bit of a drive sometimes, dude, but honestly though, getting yourself into a totally new environment is usually the only way to find someone who actually matches your vibe.

[Asker]

I don't wanna sound like a douche but the reason why I don't wanna approach girls I don't find pretty is bcs when u do and u get rejected, their ego will start to get big and u r the reason. I don't mind rejection but it has to be from someone that at least I found attractive.

[Plugs]

So u like no one?

[Calyptomaniac]

Sometimes when you get to know people better, they become more attractive to you when you like them on a personal level more than a superficial one. Otherwise, you know you need to move or look in another town if it's THAT important to you...

[DryGermanGuy]

You could try the Shorty method, with her wearing a paper bag?

[NathanDavis]

step into the town, next to yours... and try over there

rinse and repeat... as necessary

[ProbablyClueless]

I guess this is a situation where online dating has it's perks.

[queenofcardio]

Maybe try the dating apps

[exitseven]

Expand your search parameters

[Mike_Hum]

move