Is this actually how to keep a girl in 2026 or just toxic behavior?

[Finchie40]

I know this is crazy , but unfortunately a lot of girls’ are crazy so this is how to keep her by your side , A girl won’t forgive you for
• Being too nice
• crying in front of her
• Making her decide everything
• Being overly emotional
• over explaining anything to her
• Putting her above yourself
But if you want her to forgive you and to stay by your side
• Cheat on her by investing yourself into another girl
• Lying to her
• ignoring her
• Canceling plans
• Being inconsistent
• Prioritizing your life over her
• Making Mistakes with confidence
Unfortunately this is pretty much how you keep her by your side , never let a girl walk over you , never chase a girl , make her chase you , girls’ love looking up to a guy not down at a guy , she also likes a guy that she feels she can fix , she loves a guy that she can gossip about to her friends’ that brings drama into her life , if you can keep her on her feet , she will have no problem letting you lift her feet by your head 😂

[NathanDavis]

you're almost 50...

but acting like every douchebag dumbass teen year old that knows absolutely nothing about women...

just repeating whatever dumb BS they saw on socials...

[Finchie40]

LOL so you are saying this isn’t true to a certain extent

[Finchie40]

It is from a meme I saw , just figured I share to see what responses I get from it lol

[NathanDavis]

which is exactly what juveniles do... repeat the bs you see on socials, just to get some attention...

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

No, it isn't actually how to keep a girl in 2026, there's no universal recipe for that anyway:

• because girls, and guys, are not clones
• because we don't have a life span making it possible for us to know many people, as opposed to the real pool featuring billions of souls and stories
• because, as a whole, we tend to form relationships with people according to criteria set for us and not really by us, criteria set by our own past, by our social class, by the place we live in, our worldviews etc.

[jazzy34]

Well, there’s your problem, friend. You’re talking about girls, not grown women. A grown adult woman would never behave like that.

[Smashingdoozy]

Not true at all.

[Finchie40]

It’s a meme I saw 😂

[ohsheeT]

If I had to do all of that or remember that I would rather not be in a relationship LOL

The best way for me To keep a good relationship is for me just to be me Do the things I believe in don't do the things I don't believe in Treat her as I would want to be treated And show her My love Either through my actions Or my words I just respect her I wouldn't care if she seen me cry I wouldn't care about half that stuff under because if I'm going to cry there's a reason for it and it's probably a pretty bad reason

All I can do is be me and nobody else and that's the only way I could make it work

[Lliam]

That's complete bullshit.
The way to keep a woman is to love, cherish, adore and respect her. Support her in feeling happy and fulfilled. Take an interest in her passions. Do fun things together. Include her in decision making. Treat her as a best friend and equal partner.
Don't lie, cheat or bully.
In other words, treat her the way you would want to be treated.

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s the correct way to, this was just a meme that I shared to get a chuckle

[Lliam]

Right on, bro.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. You will never be successful in a relationship if you think you can just follow a complex set of rules. You have to get to know someone, learn what's important to them, and then decide what you are willing to do.

[Finchie40]

It’s a meme I saw lol

[Anonymous]

I see exactly where you're coming from and I agree you have to present an image of strength

Because eventually any flaw or error will be thrown back in your face.
Not every girl, but enough girls are like that.

My own theory is that you have to fuck her frequently. That will keep her.

Often now seeing guys being prosecuted for "coercive behavior"
So can't go that route

[Mark_Est]

In reality stop simping for women and have some basic standards for them that they need to live up to, like femininty, fitness, virginity etc.

[Anonymous]

Women don't want a guy to simp for them, they want to be challenged. It's surprising what they will put up with once they're invested in you emotionally.

[Jltakk]

Considering all the relationships my female friends have, this absolutely appears to be the case.

[MrChinaski]

If there is a girl who you can keep by doing all the things you list, would you want to keep her?

[MannMitAntworten]

That is too much work either way. Dungeons still work best.

[Anonymous]

I'm glad I quit dating

[robocop666]

women are weird

[Jen_oic]

@Finchie40 Do you actually think that?

[Finchie40]

No, it was a meme I saw and I just wanted to see everyone’s reaction to it lol

[Zionne]

2026 lol