I'm tall, socially awkward, introverted and single with almost no social circle.
I see lots of pretty girls around town, many avoid and ignore me, others give me concerned glares, scared expressions and/or dirty looks, when though im not doing anything to them, and very few of them bat they're eyes and smile at me.
I want a girlfriend but i don't know how to approach or interact with girls without them viewing me as creepy, weird and/or predatory.
And of course, i don't want to be falsey-accused of harassment or rape and lots of girls these days have been brought-up by their mothers, mainstream media, feminists and social-media into believing that men are bad, evil and toxic and are criminals, perverts and rapists.
I see a few couples in town together, both boyfriend and girlfriend, and it makes me feel bad because I'm single and alone
What Girls Said
If you are not generally good looking, dont do it. You need to get to know women and connect with them before you try more (eg. people you know from school, work, neighborhood). Try dating apps instead, they are not easy ride but may allow you to learn to speak to women and who knows maybe you do meet someone, but if anything it will be learning experience. You have false view of omen as well thinking like most women would falsy accuse men, decent normal women dont do that, if you are decent normal guy you have nothing to be afraid. You need to understand better how it is to be a woman, a woman must always fear man will harm her cause men are stronger than us and way more likely to commit violent crime unlike women, dont take that personally. If you were a woman youd feel the same and if you are decent guy you have nothing to fear but just be decent and make her feel comfortable and that she can trust you and feel safe with you. Furhter, know that plenty of people are alone, lonely or unhappy in their relationship, you are not alone, its more common then you think, finding love isn't easy and all you can do is do your best. Good luck!
If you’re shy and introverted and have no social circle then I’m sorry to say, we’re not interested. But there are things you can do to make us pay attention to you.
Firstly, look after yourself, start hitting the gym regularly and get your body in shape if you aren’t doing that already. Keep yourself clean shaven, the majority of us girls hate hairy men, and I’m not just talking about shaving your face. You need to manscape regularly as well, make sure you keep your chest, back, arms and legs clean shaven and most importantly, get rid of all your pubic hair and shave your cock and balls regularly too.
Secondly, most introverts don’t bother with fashion and just wear baggy and comfy clothes all the time. If you want our attention then you need to change that. Start by buying branded clothing and start wearing a nice pair of jeans accompanied with a T-shirt that showcases your muscles instead of a baggy tracksuit outfit.
Thirdly, go to a barber and get a new hair style and maintain that hairstyle by using hair gel or moose.
Lastly, build yourself a social circle. Join a club and make friends or start a hobby and meet likeminded people. But don’t try to like the things you know the girl you’re interested in likes because she will just see through it.
After you make these changes don’t instantly start trying to get to know her or approach her because you’ll give her the ick, wait for her to make the first move and come to you unless she’s giving indications that’s she’s interested in you. She might start looking at you from afar and then turn away when you notice. She might start twirling her hair around her finger while she’s looking at you or when you look at her. She might start blowing kisses or winking at you from afar. If she starts doing things like these then she’s basically telling you that she wants your attention so approach her, but if she doesn’t do things like I mentioned above then wait for her to come to you.
I suggest you go out on an event or join a club or organization that lets you converse with people ! This is a great strategy to start with. That's how you create a safe space for others to get to know you and trust you more. You just need to groom yourself and get the hairstyle that matches the shape of your face if you can afford it ! There's no need to change anything major about your appearance, that is. For me, even when the guy is average looking, the smell of his cologne when it's right amount gets my attention immediately. Those are my two cents so far !