I’m 25 and have never had a girlfriend—should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

[sawno]

Worried no, current status quo leans toward late 20's early 30's but it depends heavily on how you develop. What you need to do is get good to put it in gamer terms. Develop yourself since its the opposite of how it works for girls. Get a career, be a proper sociable guy so you can hold an interesting conversation and understand her social queue's, work out since its good for your health, get your emotions under control if you haven't, etc. Basically just strive to be a better man.

Simultaneously try to date and if they don't like you in the end try to get a honest answer as to why so you know what to work on.

Its basically like a skill check, a girl comes along who might be interested and she will check if you are a competent partner for her. If yes, then you get her if not then you don't. Takes luck absolutely, meeting the right person is hard. But when you get that luck makes sure you are ready.

[Asker]

How many girlfriend had you got in life

[sawno]

Not many, in my own skill check terms I won't get most of those and will also fail most of them due to a chronic health issue. It prevents me from properly dating and going to places where I have the most chance of finding someone, it also means that significantly less girls will be interested in me. I try to fix it the best I can, but its a slow process unfortunately.

Doesn't mean my logic isn't valid though, there have been girls who came along anyway who I did pass the skill check for. Patient girls who love my personality.

[MrChinaski]

I don't know what you mean by 'worried'. I would say its an indication you probably want to make changes in your life.

Relationships build life skills: balancing conflicting goals, building value, resolving conflict. They give you a context that teaches you what parts of yourself you like and want to hold onto and what parts you should change. I could go on and on. These are life skills you want to develop. Trust me on that. The earlier the better.

What barriers do you perceive to an intimate relationship?

[Nikki1989]

Worried that life is passing you by... sure.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Worries, no, but awareness yes. By default, people judge people according to the norms of their location. So I'd say it would a good thing to assess what the norms are like, in your location

[Likes2drive]

Not yet, and it wasn’t until I was about 31 when I met the woman that I married , lasted for about 17 years, but I’m divorced now for the last 10

[Asker]

How many girlfriend had you got in life

[Likes2drive]

Only about 8

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The only thing you might have to worry about is carpal tunnel down the road. ✊ 🌭

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah, if you actually absolutely refuse to meet women.

[Anonymous]

No. After 25 you're playing for 2nd tier women. You can absolutely take your time now.

[Anonymous]

I'm almost two decades older than you, and never had a girlfriend, what should I say?

[Abbycado]

Nope, not at all.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

I think sometimes maybe girls dont like and feel surprise for my situation

[Abbycado]

You just haven’t met the right girl.

[Asker]

How many boyfriend had you got in life

[Abbycado]

I have one ex from high school and one now I met in college.

[Asker]

Ohhh nicee

[Asker]

You are lucky

[Abbycado]

Yes. I’m picky when it comes to dating. I believe in waiting for the right person.

[NathanDavis]

worried about what?

[moviedude714]

yeah more common than you think

[In_Trance]

You absolutely should