What’s the dorkiest thing a crush has ever done to get your attention?

[MissSunshine2]

[Iron_Man]

When I was in seventh grade some girl kissed me on the cheek in the school cafeteria just came right up to me. To get my attention her friend said it was a dare. But they still did it Snd when I was in my early 20s when I was on a dating Phone service some girls had my address to exchange pictures because I didn’t have a computer and one time they drove to my house late at night and that wasn’t a good idea two girls coming over and my mom was sleeping not good. Then, when I was in school, walking down the stairs, this girl grabbed me my crotch and kept walking. That was funny. Of course I wouldn’t report her because girls get a free pass to do things. I’ve had girls pinched me on the butt on St. Patrick’s Day for not wearing green.

[MissSunshine2]

You poor thing, people can be awful to each other sometimes. Thanks for sharing.

[Iron_Man]

That didn’t bother me. I guess that was a compliment back then. The girls doing that.

[NathanDavis]

I would not say it was "dorky" but she sent me a note, that literally asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend, then with a Yes or No, to check... lol

[MissSunshine2]

Aweeee, I think that’s sweet and sort of corny, but definitely romantic

[MissSunshine2]

Which box did you tick?

[NathanDavis]

well... we were like

12 or 13?

sometimes I wish I had the guts and would have just said yes, to her... lmao

[MissSunshine2]

Oh, well it makes sense that you said no at the time. It was sensible at that age.

[NathanDavis]

I would have not been the best experience to her either... lol

[MissSunshine2]

None of us were very grownup at that age. I was exceptionally immature until my thirties…when I just know I’m feeling comfortable and set in my inner geek 😊

[Nikki1989]

A man bought me a car thinking that would make me fall for him.

He failed miserably.

[MissSunshine2]

Did you keep the car?

[Nikki1989]

Nope, and he wasn't happy about it.

[MissSunshine2]

lol I like that 😊

[Nikki1989]

Thanks for the MHO.

[MrChinaski]

@Nikki1989 LMAO

[_Jenny_]

@MissSunshine2 A guy gave me a job, and paid me a lot of money

[Iron_Man]

What kind of a job?

[_Jenny_]

@Iron_Man DM me

[Iron_Man]

I think I already know what you’re gonna tell me

[_Jenny_]

@Iron_Man so don’t ask

[MrChinaski]

What is a crush? You like someone. You ask them out. Things go pear shaped. You breakup. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Crushes are something 12 year old school girls in ringlets have.

[MissSunshine2]

I respectfully disagree. Most relationships start with a crush.

[MrChinaski]

So a crush involves:
- Thinking about the person a lot.
- Looking forward to seeing them.
- Feeling nervous or excited around them.
- Imagining a relationship with them.
- Limited information about what the person is actually like (which is why crushes can sometimes involve idealisation).

If you are an adult that should never happen. Because you already asked.

[MissSunshine2]

I ask a lot of things, not necessarily because I don't have my own opinions, but also, because I want to have discussions with other people about their own opinions.

[Anonymous]

What’s yours?

[MissSunshine2]

Good question. Probably the guy who slipped me his email address when I was in year 8. He sent a chain mail about liking me. It was full of questions and answers.