Why do so many women seem insecure and need constant validation?

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Seems like they're all extremely mentally ill whenever it comes to any sort of criticism. Outside of that they demand constant validation and are always testing their men to make sure he only finds her attractive.

Is it hypocritical? As I think women also find other men attractive without necessarily cheating (I hope at least).

I think it's just built into their nature, which is a blackpill because insecure women are impossible to have a relationship with.

[thegreenyogi]

The pressures of society trigger the insecurities in all of us. And when it comes to women still to this day are we made to feel that our worth is not enough. Our failure is falling into the trap of allowing ourselves to be manipulated by the toxic culture to the point one feels we need to be told constantly we're better than good and feeling insecure is what makes us vulnerable and feeding our own vulnerability is what makes women need validation. Many women just don't feel good enough and are incapable of embracing all that they are without the need to prove anything to anyone.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

I don't think smart phones have been healthy for women's psychology at all.

[thegreenyogi]

Of course they haven't. I agree it hasn't helped. I guess this is the price of progress due to technology advancement and it's a shame because it hasn't helped women or men really.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Yeah it's not helping men because of what it's doing to women.

[thegreenyogi]

My point exactly.

[Kvass]

Funny coming from the gender that needs validation for their dick size every 5 minutes 🤣

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Good point.
If you're a virgin you got noone to validate your dick, which isn't the same for woman as their form is more visible.
If a woman is honest about your dick size and you get mad, you're the one expected to burden the responsibility for being insecure.
If women sniff out any insecure from their men, she's instantly less attracted towards you. Whereas men don't find acts of insecurity unattractive even if we do like confidence.
Men are made to have accountability & manage their emotions in this example.

[Anonymous]

We have an epidemic of low quality women. You know how women like to claim a male lonliness epidemic. There is an epidemic of women who simply do not know what a healthy relationship consists of. These women have weak male role models if they ever had any male role models at all. The end result is these women look to men for validation. It's ok to pity these women, but do not feel sorry for them and keep your distance. Because they are still dangerous.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

And it really is a epidemic. As we men hit the gym and do everything to self improve ourselves for just a bit of female validation these bitches are constantly complaining so it us. Despite all of the lonely men and incels did you know statistically women hate men far more then men have women?
I'd say people like me who hate *most* women are actually quite justified as a response to these bitches hating us.
Nothing has made me more misogynistic lately then watching this female streamer unironically exposing all of the fucked up instincts women have. We at least got a very small handful of ladies supporting on our side and we love them for it.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

When all women around you are perceived as "extremely mentally ill", it automatically indicates that your perceptions are distorted. Because it's statistically impossible to be surrounded by so much mental illness, in normal circumstances. Unless you're posting from a psychiatric unit of course.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Most people in general are "mentally ill". That's because mental disorders are effectively just another way of saying you have a brain & don't think exactly the same as everyone else.
"Mental illness" is a questionable term to begin with so I used it more casually. There's no evidence a mental state is an illness outside of academics trying to justify their doctorate by prescribing you drugs.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I mean, sure, you can try to argue against anything well established, good luck with that lol

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@Maybe_Maybe_not It's not well established because they have not rationally proved your thoughts & feelings can be poorly. That implies injury, disease and other life threatening health conditions.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't think it's wise to define on your own, and against a lot of people, what is well established and what isn't. That's precisely why I wished you good luck

[Wodens_Apprentice]

I'm not on my own these ideas as I was exposed to the ideas from a video I saw.
I think it's wise to define things on your own so long as you're basing it off what is evident. The whole mental health framework appears to be a justification rather than based on true evidence.

Thank you and I also wish you luck 🍀

[Anonymous]

Insecure women as well as insecure men, obviously have self-esteem issues basically more so trust issues from their past. That they’re still holding onto. I think it goes both ways, I try to have a genuine connection with a guy that constantly needed reassurance and validation. And by that I mean, he was getting it up by four other women at the same time.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Well if he's banging multiple women he has no reason to feel insecure.
Women should stop being attracted to the most fickle out of the male population. But it's those fickle men you like the most.

[Opinion Owner]

No, I totally agree with you. But when you rely on validation you’re gonna eventually start to feel empty when it’s not there anymore at least that’s just how I see it

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Women are constantly validated whereas men are made to stay lonely for years unless they adopt a perverted mentality that women complain about but secretly like.

[MrChinaski]

Rather than shouting from the rooftop what terrible, horrible people 4 billion women are, maybe try sharing a personal experience you have had with one other individual. You might get feedback that is actually useful to you.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Because nobody wants to read a random question about my personal experience. That doesn't stir conversation. Why do you treat every case as an individual and not recognise that there's patterns in female behaviour? I mean this is G@G so I think questions like this are to be expected actually.
Look at how many women and you boomer simps have had a knee jerk and jumped to protecting women when you dare ask offensively honest questions about their psychology. It's certainly not the case when the genders are reversed.

[MrChinaski]

OMG...

[MrChinaski]

You need help, friend. This is not normal thinking and this is not normal behaviour.

"6'4'' Teutonic, Blonde Haired, Blue Eyed Warrior of Woden, and still somehow cursed to be a virgin.
The only reason to use this degenerate site is to find ladies & choose the best outta them, without being a dating app simp.
I also like trying debates & arguments, because I'm a genius that's smart, cool and awesome & you're gay for still reading this."

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Your response is feminine coded and that bio is based, strong and Wodenpilled 🪄
If you can't give reason then you're just trying to make me feel insecure by acting judgmental. That's foid behaviour.

[MrChinaski]

LMFAO. You have made my day so much brighter.

[MrChinaski]

Especially hilarious because my original post was trying to take you seriously.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Nonsense, you never took this seriously from the beginning Redditor.
Get back to complimenting your wife, before she gets bored. You don't want her going out with Tyrone again, do you?

[Nikki1989]

That is hilarious coming from a male gag user. I must assume you haven't been on here long.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Elaborate

[slatyb]

Why do so many men seem insecure and need constant validation? Why else would they hang out in sports bars with a bunch of guys?

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Those men are the least insecure because they are the ones scoring bitches.

[slatyb]

Those are the men complaining all over social media about how they can't get dates.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@slatyb No they are not. Those are the men pump and dumping hoe's because they don't respect women, as like incels do they notice women are sluts.
There's a reason they call them Chads and call autists like me Chuds.

[slatyb]

I didn't watch sportsball and have no problem getting dates. Ten minutes of conversation and women want to take me home with them.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

@slatyb You gotta adopt the pervert mindset like that to even get a chance. Also my generation of women is far worse to deal with then yours.

[Anonymous]

The irony. you're the mentally ill one based on all the bullshit i see you post. Genuinely, see a therapist. you're way too focused on women.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

It's a website where men ask questions about women. What does you expect?
Maybe you should see a therapist. You realise therapy is entirely female coded right?
We men don't like talking about our problems, we like to fix them instead. Why would I want to tell random academic working for the government all my problems. Doesn't sound like the right advice to save my people and obtain a woman at all.

[jahaims]

They are emotionally immature/unhealthy.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Definitely that.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason some men are

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Why mens insecurity is socially acceptable and men are expected to act around it. Male insecurity gets laughed and you're told to man up.
That's the difference.