Why do attractive girls choose guys with less money or stability over me?

[Awesomesauce2005]

I see attractive girls a lot but most of them are with undisciplined unemployed or minimum wage working men. I lost a pretty girl to a ugly guy working at a car wash making 250 a week, I make 830 a week where I work and I provided for her and cared for her in every way I could. Why doesn't the world make sense?

[Crimsyjo]

I really don't know. I'm wondering if to make so much money your very focused in it and work hard which sounds great on paper and in your bank account but maybe that leaves the women feeling like they don't get much emotional connection or attention? Are you one to text a lot even whilst at work? Send messages about can't wait to see them? Miss them? Tall about future things you do together? Do you notice if they look nice or dress up? Are you type of guy to pay attention to body language? Ask if they look upset or how their day went? Or are you more type to buy them things and talk about how well you are doing and how secure and lucky they are because with you they can have a nice house and things? Which is great but may cone across too materialistic. ? Maybe. I'm just guessing. It's one possibility.

[LazerBean]

Honestly, it's kind of sounding like your personality is a problem

[Awesomesauce2005]

How so

[NathanDavis]

you also make more than me... per week

actually, you even might make more than Elon and Bezos... probably

your "weekly salary" is not always a reflection of "how much money you have" but you're just 21... lol

[Anonymous]

At your age women are kind of frivolous and stupid. By 25 or 30 they've either wised up, or they never will.

[MrChinaski]

A lot of people want a vision of a future that is exciting and different than they currently have that they can dive into wholeheartedly, in preference to exactly the life they already have only slightly better.

That's why they buy SpaceX stock at 90 times sales instead of GM at 0.4x sales.

[LiamJHayden]

I make many multiples of what you make and I have similar issues at times. With me it is because my eccentricities drive them away.

[genericname85]

cause girls your age care about exciting adventures more than about stability. that comes closer to their 30s, when they are about to hit the wall. it's then when they suddenly realize that stability is important.

[beenherebefore]

Maybe they're after a challenging guy rather than a provider.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Why would they throw away a chance at security

[beenherebefore]

Perhaps toxicity is more familiar to them than security.

[lilBigPotato]

Because of posts like this. It's not all about money.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Money equals security. Money is everything if you want a happy healthy family

[MrChinaski]

There is a whiff of entitlement in the OPs post.

[Mariogirl09]

You're too nice? Or you're unattractive

[Awesomesauce2005]

Too nice probably. I doubt I'm unattractive. Id say my looks and build are average. I have no acne and I'm not overweight

[robocop666]

money makes you the provider not the lover.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Money makes me both. If I didn't love her why would I spend money on someone I didn't love that makes no sense.

[robocop666]

are these men ugly and poor or poor and good looking?

[Awesomesauce2005]

Ugly and poor

[robocop666]

well then I dunno?

[jahaims]

Lmfao