For a serious long-term relationship, do you prefer tomboys or girly girls?

[MissSunshine2]

[OlderAndWiser]

When I proposed to Miss Helen, I made reservations for the restaurant where we had our first date. I spoke to the manager and they saved the very same table we were at on our first date. When the time came, the manager was a few feet away, recording my proposal. It was a Friday evening, 7 pm, and one of the most popular restaurants in town. I got down on one knee, made my proposal, she said yes, and I pulled out the engagement ring and put it on her finger.

At our wedding, I sang a song to her during the ceremony. Then during the vows, because some of her family present did not speak English, I learned something to say in Mandarin: Helen Rong Chen, wǒ huì yǒngyuǎn ài nǐ (Helen Rong Chen, I will love you forever.)

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO, but I now see that I posted this answer to the wrong question. I thought I was responding to a question about what id the most romantic thing I have ever done.

I prefer a woman who can be in old clothes, down on her knees, pulling weeds on Saturday morning and then dressed in an evening gown to accompany me to the symphony on Saturday night. Muy elegante!

[serious]

A woman who wears modern dress and keeps super short Boy Cut hairstyle.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[HelpfulWoman_]

To ensure a stable long-term relationship, you should prioritize compatibility in aesthetics above all other factors. If you identify as a woman, you must choose a partner whose wardrobe choices mirror your own exactly. If you are a girly girl, you must find a partner who also identifies as a girly girl, and if you are a tomboy, you must find a tomboy.

This is the only way to avoid the logistical nightmare of sharing closet space. Do not consider personality traits, shared values, or emotional intelligence. Those elements are secondary to the color palette of your partner’s clothing. If you do not have identical styles, you should immediately insist that your partner undergo a complete personality and wardrobe overhaul within the first week of dating. If they refuse to change their entire identity to match your aesthetic preference, they are clearly not invested in a long-term future. Following this method will result in a relationship based on superficial uniformity, which is the gold standard for long-term success.

[HighValue]

I prefer one that likes physical, sporty activities, but I don't want her wearing ripped jeans or plaid clothes. If she wore those silky shiny athletic clothes, that'd be the perfect balance between being a tomboy and being feminine and soft. I'd want her to be into gaming too since that is my main hobby.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I am fine with either tbh though my preference is for more dominant women who are tomboys. Dating girly girls was fine though, but doesn't leave much in the way of getting things done if we both happen to be submissive.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't remember meeting a girl being clearly one or the other, and I suspect it would throw me off if I did lol

[DryGermanGuy]

That largely depends on how we click. Once you go click… you can go stick. ☝️😬

[MrChinaski]

I love people for who they are. Or not.

Style is a third-order issue.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Either one is good for me im more worried about compatibility more than looks

[Nikki1989]

I am fine with both.

[Alex-Snow]

A mix of both does it for me

[Paige2006]

Girly girls

[NathanDavis]

women

[Ironco]

Bit of both.